Repost: Cinderella Syndrome

Lisa R.
on 6/1/12 8:42 am - CA
 Thanks for this post.  It hits home with me big time.  I do fear regain so bad!  Now with summer and being off for 2 months I feel like when school starts again I am going to be 250 lbs!  That is not even possible...right! 

Thanks again, I know I can do this, I have to be on top of it everyday....
  
The question isn’t who is going to let me; it’s who is going to stop me. ~ Ayn Rand        
Blu-Diva
on 6/1/12 1:13 pm - Hamilton, Canada
 Now thanks what I'm taking about

Surgery date May 7 / 2012
Highest 312 lbs - Pre Op 297lbs - now 199 lbs
I know now that my location was never my destination.

   Blu-Diva      

 

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 6/1/12 2:00 pm, edited 6/1/12 2:01 am - OH
Ok, I cannot possibly be the ONLY person here who is not particularly worried about regain. Can I?!?

I realize that, since I am almost 5 years out, I have some additional "evidence" that I am not going to suddenly start gaining it all back, but I was not particularly worried about it when I was only a year or two out.

My surgeon emphasized from the info session onward that this was not a "cure", and that the surgery would GET the weight off but that I would have to KEEP it off. So perhaps knowing from the very beginning that I was in control of regaining or not made me less fearful. I was far more fearful of not losing enough weight than of gaining it all back.

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

nfarris79
on 6/2/12 3:48 am, edited 6/2/12 3:49 am - Germantown, MD
Lora's not the only one worried about regain! so my new mantra is gonna be "I'm not Cinderella, I'm a princess!""
BTW, if therapists really were worth their weight in gold, I'd be worth $2433150!

First ultra: Stone Mill 50 miler 11/15/14 13:44:38, First Full Marathon: Marine Corps 10/27/13 4:57:11Half Marathon PR 2:04:43 at Shamrock VA Beach Half-Marathon, 12/2/12 First Half-Marathon 2:32:47, 5K PR  Run Under the Lights 5K 27:23 on 11/23/13, 10K PR 52:53 Pike's Peek 10K 4/21/13(1st timed run) Accumen 8K 51:09 10/14/12.

     
 

Cicerogirl, The PhD
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on 6/2/12 4:57 am - OH
Oooh, a time when weighing a little more is actually an advantage!  

Lora

14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained

You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.

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