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I am horribly grumpy this morning. I had a bad night last, didn't get to sleep until after 5:00 this morning, when I finally dozed off on the couch.
A couple hours later, my partner woke up, no doubt all refreshed from a good night's sleep. It's supposed to be hot again today and I've been asking him to please put the window air conditioners in. So he decides it's a good time to do that. Well, I did want the air conditioners put in, but not when I was sleeping, not if it requires making this much noise. I've been asking for them for a couple of weeks now and you couldn't do it yesterday or the day before or the day before that? Or, you know, any time when I was awake? And why does it have to involve so much thumping and banging, anyway? And seriously, do you really have to ask me where to plug in the air conditioner? You can't figure that out yourself?
Argh!
A couple hours later, my partner woke up, no doubt all refreshed from a good night's sleep. It's supposed to be hot again today and I've been asking him to please put the window air conditioners in. So he decides it's a good time to do that. Well, I did want the air conditioners put in, but not when I was sleeping, not if it requires making this much noise. I've been asking for them for a couple of weeks now and you couldn't do it yesterday or the day before or the day before that? Or, you know, any time when I was awake? And why does it have to involve so much thumping and banging, anyway? And seriously, do you really have to ask me where to plug in the air conditioner? You can't figure that out yourself?
Argh!
Kelly
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
ohhh oh, same think happened to my daughter , she asked her husband to put the wall unit in the window in thier upstirs bedroom , he wouldn't do it so she made her OWN bedroom downstairs, guess what? he had the air in the window in FIVE minutes!! she never moved back upstairs and they were divorced soon after 
It is so hard when you are in pain and can't sleep!!!
MEN !!! gotta luv em , they can't help it
It is so hard when you are in pain and can't sleep!!!
MEN !!! gotta luv em , they can't help it
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Well, I feel real sure we are not splitting up over this. But I plan to be grumpy all day!
Kelly
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
I am grumpy right now, too. I have been stuck at my house with my 2 y.o and 6 y.o. for almost 3 weeks now, not really able to go anywhere bc I'm not supposed to be lifting the 2 y.o. into his carseat or chasing after him because he will, inevitably, run away from me. And on top of it, my DH freaking works EVERY. DAY. He had a week off when I had the surgery and I don't think he has had a day off since. I know it's hard for him, but it is hard for me, too, because i wait all day for him to come home so I have someone to talk to besides my 6 y.o. who only wants to play these wild pretend games she comes up with. And the 2 y.o. constantly wants to be on top of me, which I usually think is cute, but I can't stand him elbowing me in the abdomen one more time. I am getting irrationally angry over it.
Anyway, this weekend is our city's annual Carnival and I wanted to go today to see one of my favorite American Idol contestants perform, Casey James. We got childcare lined up for the little one and everything. It's raining now and I am thinking if it's just drizzling now and then, I still want to go . I called DH and asked him when he's coming home from work bc I'm going crazy w/the kids. He said not for a few hours and plus, it's raining. He doesn't want to go if it's raining, which is understandable. He wanted to know what I want to do instead and I am so nuts right now that I was being kind of b***tchy and just said I only want to go the concert and I can't think bc I'm going crazy. I am just tired of being home and not being around other adults. Plus, I wonder if I am having PMS because yesterday I cried for a stupid reason. Okay, thanks for letting me vent here :)
Anyway, this weekend is our city's annual Carnival and I wanted to go today to see one of my favorite American Idol contestants perform, Casey James. We got childcare lined up for the little one and everything. It's raining now and I am thinking if it's just drizzling now and then, I still want to go . I called DH and asked him when he's coming home from work bc I'm going crazy w/the kids. He said not for a few hours and plus, it's raining. He doesn't want to go if it's raining, which is understandable. He wanted to know what I want to do instead and I am so nuts right now that I was being kind of b***tchy and just said I only want to go the concert and I can't think bc I'm going crazy. I am just tired of being home and not being around other adults. Plus, I wonder if I am having PMS because yesterday I cried for a stupid reason. Okay, thanks for letting me vent here :)
Surgery date of 4/30/12 
I'm super *****y today too. DH (separated but he was over to watch the kids so that I could go shopping this morning) flipped out on me because he couldn't find hats to take the kids outside...called me and screamed for 25 mins...I walk in the door, walk to the drawers in the closet and pull out the hats (they have been in that drawer since the day we moved in 5 years ago)...did this solve the problem? Nope...then he let loose a tirade that I had hidden them in the closet and only pretended that I pulled them out of the drawer because he looked in there and there weren't any hats there...delusional much?
I probably could have handled myself better but I turned around and said "part of being your soon-to-be ex-wife means I don't have to put up with your irrational mood swings, kindly leave my house and go take it out on someone else" he started in with some snotty comments and I just stood there with the front door open saying nothing until he left in a huff. He has sent some nasty text messages since but to be perfectly honest I really couldn't care less.
This is where I put in the footnote thank you to everyone on OH who helped me and supported me when I finally saw the light about him after my surgery.
I probably could have handled myself better but I turned around and said "part of being your soon-to-be ex-wife means I don't have to put up with your irrational mood swings, kindly leave my house and go take it out on someone else" he started in with some snotty comments and I just stood there with the front door open saying nothing until he left in a huff. He has sent some nasty text messages since but to be perfectly honest I really couldn't care less.
This is where I put in the footnote thank you to everyone on OH who helped me and supported me when I finally saw the light about him after my surgery.
I would have if I could have. With my current back problems, I can't lift a gallon of milk. No way I could carry an air conditioner.
In the past I could have asked my neighbor, he would have been happy to help me out. Unfortunately, he shot himself in the face a few months ago and is still in a nursing home recovering.
In the past I could have asked my neighbor, he would have been happy to help me out. Unfortunately, he shot himself in the face a few months ago and is still in a nursing home recovering.
Kelly
Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR. If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor. Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me. If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her. Check out my blog.
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