The Obesity Help Terms of Service
I had no idea what this was about because I block all the people who only post religious posts here and this "gentleman" (and I use that term loosely) is one of them. In fact, I think he may have blocked me - can't honestly remember.
One thing I do miss though, is getting the measure of people on here, when something particularly hateful is posted, like today. You know how you think you get to "know" people by how and what they post, and then something like this comes up and it gives you an insight into the real them ... sometimes shocking!
A hate post is a hate post - even if it is veiled in religion, and I hope that OH do the right thing and moderate him!
One thing I do miss though, is getting the measure of people on here, when something particularly hateful is posted, like today. You know how you think you get to "know" people by how and what they post, and then something like this comes up and it gives you an insight into the real them ... sometimes shocking!
A hate post is a hate post - even if it is veiled in religion, and I hope that OH do the right thing and moderate him!
Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist
Kim - this is the thread in question - I found it to be one of the most vile things I have ever read. And I said the same thing on that thread as well - hatred and ignorance veiled in religion. I also mommy buttoned that thread as well. I would love for you to share your thoughts after you read this hate speech.
And I must say :::sarcasm on:::: that as many others have so kindly pointed out, that he did have the courtesy to put a disclaimer on it - which, dontcha know, makes everything ok. ::::sarcasm off:::
Here's his thread in blue -
And I must say :::sarcasm on:::: that as many others have so kindly pointed out, that he did have the courtesy to put a disclaimer on it - which, dontcha know, makes everything ok. ::::sarcasm off:::
Here's his thread in blue -
Thanks for that! This is WHY I block those threads - I respect his right to have his opinions but spreading his marginal hatred on this board is inappropriate and I think this is a familiar pattern with him. When was the last time he contributed anything on topic? I suspect his purpose here is not WLS support but to further his personal right wing religious agenda - and it speaks a lot to those who support him here too!
The fact that he has offended so many people that generally ignore him should push OH into moderating his hate mongering. I'm sure he loves all this attention - it serves his purpose - so it is up to OH to do something about it before he turns this generally peaceful board into something very hateful!!!
The fact that he has offended so many people that generally ignore him should push OH into moderating his hate mongering. I'm sure he loves all this attention - it serves his purpose - so it is up to OH to do something about it before he turns this generally peaceful board into something very hateful!!!
Proud Feminist, Atheist, LGBT friend, and Democratic Socialist
On May 5, 2012 at 3:57 PM Pacific Time, Sin Kim wrote:
Thanks for that! This is WHY I block those threads - I respect his right to have his opinions but spreading his marginal hatred on this board is inappropriate and I think this is a familiar pattern with him. When was the last time he contributed anything on topic? I suspect his purpose here is not WLS support but to further his personal right wing religious agenda - and it speaks a lot to those who support him here too!The fact that he has offended so many people that generally ignore him should push OH into moderating his hate mongering. I'm sure he loves all this attention - it serves his purpose - so it is up to OH to do something about it before he turns this generally peaceful board into something very hateful!!!
Well, it looks like OH removed the offensive thread. Thanks, Nik, for reminding everyone of how to report posts that violate the terms of service. And thanks all for reporting hate speech when you see it here.
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Thank YOU for getting the point of this post.
It isn't that I am endorsing his post. Not at all! But I do admit I get annoyed when we do the "why did you post that?" round robin. If it's offensive, report it and they will get moderated. Usually that either prompts a person to a) modify what they post to be within the subject matter of the board or b) leave altogether. Either way, offense goes bye-bye.
But that discussion was getting old. I honestly wasn't trying to start stuff, but I take it sort of like a person who is stealing roses off your bush and all you do is wag your finger at them. Call the damn police! They did something wrong. Same here. When someone does something inappropriate I think the most effective way to combat it is to have them face the rules of the system under which they are operating.
That goes for me or anybody. Hell, report me if I ever get on your nerves! Lord knows at least three other people have in the past, which is why you don't see ME posting about certain things people can click on on certain sites that might benefit certain posters with the name of certain Egyptian queens. :) See how that works?
It isn't that I am endorsing his post. Not at all! But I do admit I get annoyed when we do the "why did you post that?" round robin. If it's offensive, report it and they will get moderated. Usually that either prompts a person to a) modify what they post to be within the subject matter of the board or b) leave altogether. Either way, offense goes bye-bye.
But that discussion was getting old. I honestly wasn't trying to start stuff, but I take it sort of like a person who is stealing roses off your bush and all you do is wag your finger at them. Call the damn police! They did something wrong. Same here. When someone does something inappropriate I think the most effective way to combat it is to have them face the rules of the system under which they are operating.
That goes for me or anybody. Hell, report me if I ever get on your nerves! Lord knows at least three other people have in the past, which is why you don't see ME posting about certain things people can click on on certain sites that might benefit certain posters with the name of certain Egyptian queens. :) See how that works?
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