Random Poll o' the Week: I got the POWER!

hlacy
on 3/5/12 5:16 am - Chandler, AZ
I don't have to feel bad about the friends that have dropped me since surgery or make bad decisions in their own lives if I don't want to. And nobody can make me!

That's been such a hard part of this surgery. I feel like some people were only friends with me before because I was the "fat friend" and made them feel better about themselves and their bad decisions. It's taken me a while to realize that it has NOTHING to do with me! 

It's been my boss, co-workers and people in my social circle! But, I now know who the genuine ones are - and I love them all the more for it!
"Keep a green tree in your heart and perhaps a singing bird will come"           

LJ1972
on 3/5/12 7:01 am - FL
I don't have to ___ do a breakroom advertisement of the amount of weight lost___ if I don't want to .. and nobody can make me!
Mandy R.
on 3/5/12 10:50 am - Callahan, FL
I feel the same way !!


HW-298  SW-251 Loss/Month post RNY(1)-23.5,(2)-23.3,(3)-9.9,(4)-10.6,(5)-8.9,(6)-7.7,(7)-4.2,(8)-7.5,(9)-1.7,(10)-10.8*first goal reached*,(11)-6,(12)-1.3,(13)-0.3,(14)+2.9-*changed scales that weigh 2lbs heavier*,(15)-0.3(16)-4.7(17),+5.8(18)-1.5,(19)+4.4,(20)-+4,(21)-1.2,(22)+3.5,(23)


 

dori M.
on 3/5/12 8:37 am - MD
 I don't have to discuss my surgery with others if I don't want to
  

                          
Mandy R.
on 3/5/12 10:51 am - Callahan, FL
Amen !!


HW-298  SW-251 Loss/Month post RNY(1)-23.5,(2)-23.3,(3)-9.9,(4)-10.6,(5)-8.9,(6)-7.7,(7)-4.2,(8)-7.5,(9)-1.7,(10)-10.8*first goal reached*,(11)-6,(12)-1.3,(13)-0.3,(14)+2.9-*changed scales that weigh 2lbs heavier*,(15)-0.3(16)-4.7(17),+5.8(18)-1.5,(19)+4.4,(20)-+4,(21)-1.2,(22)+3.5,(23)


 

bowknot
on 3/5/12 10:25 am
I don't have to take negativity if I don't want to. And nobody can make me!
Mandy R.
on 3/5/12 10:58 am - Callahan, FL
I don't have to let you criticize my every food choice if I don't want to !! And nobody can make me !! (directed @ my coworker)
Mandy


HW-298  SW-251 Loss/Month post RNY(1)-23.5,(2)-23.3,(3)-9.9,(4)-10.6,(5)-8.9,(6)-7.7,(7)-4.2,(8)-7.5,(9)-1.7,(10)-10.8*first goal reached*,(11)-6,(12)-1.3,(13)-0.3,(14)+2.9-*changed scales that weigh 2lbs heavier*,(15)-0.3(16)-4.7(17),+5.8(18)-1.5,(19)+4.4,(20)-+4,(21)-1.2,(22)+3.5,(23)


 

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