poll about food addiction
2. No one told me I had a food addiction but weight was a dead give away :)
3. I have been thinking of looking for a psychiatrist not about food addiction but other things since I am losing weight. I am not use to people being so friendly and I tend to shy away from it. I always put my guard up and won't let anyone in.
Anybody know how to pick out a good psychiatrist?
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If I were addicted to food I dont know what I'd do because you cant live without it. I t's like trying to have a "little crack", or a "little heroin", or "crystal meth in moderation".....I imagine.
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
You take a Tylenol when you are in pain. Does that make you a junkie?
No. Hell, I'll be so provocative as to say there are certain situations in your life where, just as it is appropriate to medicate with medicine, it might be appropriate to medicate with food. How many times have we seen on tv where heartbroken women delve into gallons of ice cream? Sometimes it's just what you do. Doesn't mean there are deep-seated problems, like you said Lora. It just means at that moment that was your medication of choice.
The problem comes in when you can't function without your medicine. If you can't go to work without the Tylenol or have relationships without that Tylenol. If, even when you know you're about to overdose, you still crave that Tylenol because you can't deal with a reality where there is no Tylenol. Then yes, maybe you are a Tylenol junkie.
That's the best way I can describe it to people.
RNY Gastric Bypass 1-8-08 350/327/200 (HW/SW/CW). I spend most of my time playing with my food over at Bariatric Foodie - check me out!
I will be "borrowing" the Tylenol/junkie example because I sometimes struggle to talk with clients about these differences without sounding like I am teaching a class!
Lora
14 years out; 190 pounds lost, 165 pound loss maintained
You don't drown by falling in the water. You drown by staying there.
Food is not "crack" to everyone. But even that analogy is a bit skewed, Crack doesn't (by itself) make people addicted to crack). My mom did drugs as well as alcohol. Now in meetings she shares the first hit she took made her feel like total **** So naturally she went back for another. Normal people don't do that. Normal people go, "wow. that felt BAD. let's not do that again!"
Better yet, normal people have heard of crack, anticipate that it will not make them feel good and don't try it to begin with.
No...our minds are what make us addicts. And we find ways to act out those addictions through things. And I'm sure some great researcher will figure out someday why some folks latch onto food while others latch onto crack but the distinction really doesn't hold much value. It's not so much the substance, but our reaction to it (both emotionally and biochemically) that's worthy of note.
RNY Gastric Bypass 1-8-08 350/327/200 (HW/SW/CW). I spend most of my time playing with my food over at Bariatric Foodie - check me out!
2. The psych that checked me out for WLS said I was right on the edge.
3. Tried treatment, but the psychologist didn't have a clue. Still looking. Have beaten drugs, alcohol, cigarrettes but I believe this is the hardest. Life extremely busy right now but I'm trying to find
the time...