OT - why is it that men can't find things?

poet_kelly
on 10/12/11 7:21 am - OH
Seriously.  I want to know.  Why is it that they cannot find bread at the grocery store even though they have shopped at that store for more than eight years and the bread has been in the same place for all that time?  Why is it that they cannot find a measuring cup in the kitchen gadget drawer even though it is right there?  As my grandma used to say, "If it was a snake, it would have bit you!"  And I am not talking about visually impaired men.  I am talking about college-educated men with good eyesight.  So why is it that I have to get up and locate the vitamin D in the medicine cabinet, where it sits in plain view?

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Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

A. C
on 10/12/11 7:26 am
there is a joke in here somewhere.. i just can't find it yet lol
poet_kelly
on 10/12/11 7:28 am - OH
No no, I really wanna know.

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Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

jazzycatz
on 10/12/11 7:28 am - Joppa, MD
LOL...this is so my DH.  He can be looking in the pantry for 20 mins swearing up and down that we don't have something I said was in there and I will walk up and put my hands right on it.  And it's not something that has been hidden behind other things...usually it's right out in front.  

Forgive me ladies if I offend but my mother used to say, "That's why God had to put a man's penis right in front exactly at arm's reach so they could find it...or run the risk of the human race dying out."    Not a bad theory based on my experience. 

            

poet_kelly
on 10/12/11 7:29 am - OH
OK, I like that one!

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Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

qtmcmom
on 10/12/11 9:53 am
  Ahahahahaha!!! (OH really needs a "like" button)...so hilarious (because it's TRUE!) jazzycat!
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Renee2be
on 10/12/11 7:31 am - NC
lol There was a joke in there. 

I know what you mean,  i think one of the contributing factors to my divorce was having to tell this man EVERYDAY for 15 YEARS where his socks were.  I never moved them, he never found them.

However, He came close to needing a proctologist to remove them.

I feel your pain.
flyingwoman
on 10/12/11 7:57 am
Because men are socialized to have the privilege not to know or care where things are, not to have to put them away when they are out of place and not to have to replace them when they run out.

Seriously. Studies on parenting reveal that these behaviours (that there is a place for things, and that things need to go back to their place) are far more strictly enforced (as well as more harshly corrected when not complied with) in girl children than in boy children. Girls (as a social class, not always individually) are expected to know, comply, and follow through with this kind of work, boys (as a social class, not always individually) are expected to lapse in doing it, do it badly when it is done, and are excused from doing it, or released from the expectation of getting it done.
  
    
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poet_kelly
on 10/12/11 8:03 am - OH
That's really interesting.  Sociology fascinates me.

Does that go along with men not cleaning up after themselves?  Like, if my partner (who is generally pretty considerate, and would never tell you that he thinks it should be my job to clean up after him) is eating popcorn and he drops a piece on the floor, there is a good chance he will somehow not notice it and just leave it there.  Now, I very rarely drop food without realizing that I dropped it, plus if it is in plain sight on the floor, I would see it and pick it up.  Or when he feeds the cats, he frequently dribbles a little bit of the icky saucey stuff in the can on the counter.  He does not notice it and does not wipe it up, so it dries and gets gross and then I have to clean it later.  It's hard for me to understand how he can be so non-observant.

View more of my photos at ObesityHelp.com          Kelly

Please note: I AM NOT A DOCTOR.  If you want medical advice, talk to your doctor.  Whatever I post, there is probably some surgeon or other health care provider somewhere that disagrees with me.  If you want to know what your surgeon thinks, then ask him or her.    Check out my blog.

 

NinjaGirl
on 10/12/11 8:29 am, edited 10/12/11 8:52 am - MI
 You know, I read something once about a truly genetic difference in men and women's sight, whereby men don't notice small things and women do.  For instance, a man wouldn't see a bunch of little crumbs on a table, but a woman would see it.  I must try to find it now...it's been a while and it totally made sense when I read it!  

I just had this same discussion with my DH.  Frequently he will tell me we are out of something and it's right there!


I found an article that references it...but not the actual article.  Apparently women see in more detail than men!

http://www.lifescript.com/Life/Relationships/Marriage/Female _Perception_vs_Male_Perception.aspx
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