ROLL CALL!

1. Sharla
2.4/25/11
3.Protein smoothies....It is hot here and fun to experiment
4.Being able to try on clothes at Old Navy

1. Your first name (if it isn't already apparent)

Everything but my birth certificate says Nessa now.  My BC says Nancy... I go by Nessa

thanks for not asking the last name.. it changes frequently... (HA)


2. Surgery date

RNY 9/22/09
Tummy Tuck and Breast lift 6/23/11
Perforated Ulcer repair (emergency) 8/2/11  (yep 6 weeks after the tummy tuck)


3. Current food obsession (or, the food that you currently tolerate the best)

do the TRENTA sized ICED Coffees with protein powder at starbucks count?

Seriously... cottage cheese and watermelon (or a fresh cut up peach)... lunch of choice right now

4. Best NSV (non-scale victory) either so far or that you are looking forward to

can I say Jim?   no?  ok

it's a toss up since I'm not currently able to do it but YOGA   followed closely by shopping for clothes on sale is FUN... there are OPTIONS at size 6 that there aren't at size 26!

Nessa, how do they do the iced coffee at Stbx without having the protein powder all clumpy?

the coffee is iced and cold and i have them blend it before they give it to me.

thanks for not asking the last name.. it changes frequently... (HA)

Bwahahah!  I'm with you there!  (I've been married a time or two... or five)

working on divorce #3 and planning marriage #4 as we type

I need to hang with u.. I just want marraige number 1 LOL

Good for you!!!   Congrats! 

Ok wait...I thought this was divorce #2...

I must not have been listening between Baltimore and Cincinnati very well (cleans wax from her ears).

Nope I rarely talk about the second disaster...

I was in a bad place my mom had just died, my ex had just remarried, he had medical issues that my insurance would cover, he was living with me causing me expenses and not contributing and I wanted the tax break for supporting his tush...  all and all it was a stupid stupid STUPID thing to do...  

the first I was young and i thought in love  I have two great kids from the first
the second... well see above
the third... I was hugely fat and this man (who I am still friends with) loved me... and I was going to get to be MOMMY to his daughter... and I was for 8 years... (6 of them married) but after WLS I found myself again and he remained mired in self-loathing and depression and he refused to get help.  He is still refusing to get help (therapy is for crazy people) and he is becoming more and more and more of a drama queen... he has no self-esteem and he prefers to be with a woman who is bigger than I ever was...  

He was given the option to tell me early on in my relationship with the bf to end it.  he did not would not or could not tell me to end it... I think he was unhappy and wanted out as badly as I but just did not know how to do it...   we are good friends still

yes I feel HORRID that I've had three failed marriages and I'm going to TRY it again... but I'm forever hopeful...