When will I see what they see??

Tonya0531
on 8/15/11 5:04 am - Lake, MS
I know this is completely a mental issue with my own view of myself.  My boss says I'm just getting skinnier and skinnier.  A lady at the ballgame Friday night called me "skinny minny".  I don't see it.  I know my clothes are smaller.  My DH says I have a mental issue because I tell him that I see the 274 lb girl in the mirror still.  I do.  Anyone else going thru this?
Tonya
HW: 274  PreOp Diet: 271  Surgery: APRIL 25, 2011   
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kellyl1202
on 8/15/11 5:07 am
I think my body image is so out of whack! When I'm heavy I avoid mirrors and picture myself smaller than I really am.

When I have lost weight in the past and been closer to a normal weight I still feel heavier in comparison to those that are about my size! When I would see pics of myself at lower weights I'm surprised that I am "thin". Does that make sense?
Kelly L  
5'ft 1in   RNY 9/12/11
301 HW / 287.7 SW / 216 CW / 150 GW

    
Tonya0531
on 8/15/11 5:33 am - Lake, MS
Yes it does make sense.
Tonya
HW: 274  PreOp Diet: 271  Surgery: APRIL 25, 2011   
LilySlim - (6Jve)
I love my new life!!!
JerseyJim
on 8/15/11 7:19 am - Sayre, PA
"When I'm heavy I avoid mirrors and picture myself smaller than I really am."

Very acute insight.  I'll add that the same probably rings true for pictures.  We avoid having our pictures taken, and that lends to the "smaller than I really am" perspective.  That's probably the reason that so many of us decide to do something when we finally see a picture of ourselves at our heaviest weight.  I know that is certainly true for me, and I've read where several other posters have had similar experiences.

HW: 418 SW: 386 CW: 225 GW: 210

Carla M.
on 8/15/11 5:08 am
Yes! My family doctor always tells me that I'm melting away to skin and bones. Friends and family always greet me with "Hi Skinny!". I've had strangers call me skinny girl. I just don't see it. When looking for clothes, I still pick up the big sizes because the clothes that actually fit me look way too small. I hope my head catches up to this body soon!
Tonya0531
on 8/15/11 5:34 am - Lake, MS
Me too.  I actually went to the "regular" sizes the other day and bought a shirt!  Could not believe it.
Tonya
HW: 274  PreOp Diet: 271  Surgery: APRIL 25, 2011   
LilySlim - (6Jve)
I love my new life!!!
jennytmitch
on 8/15/11 5:08 am - NC
I get this too and am just starting to notice any differences in the mirror.  I too still feel like the 274 lb girl.  I know my clothes are getting smaller, but I just don't always see it.
    
Tonya0531
on 8/15/11 5:35 am - Lake, MS
We are about the same place now.
Tonya
HW: 274  PreOp Diet: 271  Surgery: APRIL 25, 2011   
LilySlim - (6Jve)
I love my new life!!!
Cherylkas
on 8/15/11 5:16 am - PA
 right there with you. I have a hard time seeing the skinner me. I think it is the fact that I am so used to dreaming i was smaller that now that I am it is so dream like. I will say that only now can i start to see myself as everyone else does but not all the time. 
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Tonya0531
on 8/15/11 5:38 am - Lake, MS
I had one moment a week ago at the mall when I saw my reflection and actually took a step back to make sure it was ME!
Tonya
HW: 274  PreOp Diet: 271  Surgery: APRIL 25, 2011   
LilySlim - (6Jve)
I love my new life!!!
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