Weird NSV
It was girls night last night and I was driver...best DD is on who had wls I guess. SO I went to pick up my one friend and her hubby( who I havent seen since surgery). Did not know who I was! He was like holy crap look at you. You look fantastic. I was like thanks been working hard at it.
He then said to me maybe she should have had that surgery if she is gonna end up looking like you...my friend backed out for some reason and would not talk to me for the longest time because I had the surgery. I was flattered but felt weird after that.
He then said to me maybe she should have had that surgery if she is gonna end up looking like you...my friend backed out for some reason and would not talk to me for the longest time because I had the surgery. I was flattered but felt weird after that.
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Start weight 282, Surgery weight 265, Current weight 131, Goal weight 140
Start weight 282, Surgery weight 265, Current weight 131, Goal weight 140
A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water. Eleanor Roosevelt
That sounds like a comment best left untouched. Are they having conflicts because of her decision? Best stay out of their drama...
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Oh I am not going near that one with a ten foot pole. She didnt hear him say it thank goodness. They have a really weird relationship kinad a love/hate thing.
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Start weight 282, Surgery weight 265, Current weight 131, Goal weight 140
Start weight 282, Surgery weight 265, Current weight 131, Goal weight 140
A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water. Eleanor Roosevelt
That doesn't sound like a really healthy relationship they have, to me. I'd be afraid he was going to come onto me at some point, and if I had to be around him, I'd have a response ready. Plus, he sounds kinda skeezy, so I would probably avoid him if I could. LOL
Cara
"The presence of those seeking the truth is infinitely to be preferred to the presence of those who think they've found it." — Terry Pratchett (Monstrous Regiment)
"The presence of those seeking the truth is infinitely to be preferred to the presence of those who think they've found it." — Terry Pratchett (Monstrous Regiment)
Oh I don't worry about him hitting on me. He and I don't get along too well. He is the stick up the arse kinda guy and we get into it often. Plus he is afraid of my hubby .
But I agree they don't have a healthy relationship but neither can see it.
But I agree they don't have a healthy relationship but neither can see it.
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Start weight 282, Surgery weight 265, Current weight 131, Goal weight 140
Start weight 282, Surgery weight 265, Current weight 131, Goal weight 140
A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water. Eleanor Roosevelt
Sadly, people have to see their mistakes for themselves and it can take a long time, if they ever do!
I wonder why your friend chose not to have the surgery. I know it's terrifying, and I can't say I blame her for making her choice as she did.... but I bet if she were smaller she'd have more self-confidence and might find it easier to build a better relationship, regardless what it might take.
Congrats on your success! :D
I wonder why your friend chose not to have the surgery. I know it's terrifying, and I can't say I blame her for making her choice as she did.... but I bet if she were smaller she'd have more self-confidence and might find it easier to build a better relationship, regardless what it might take.
Congrats on your success! :D
Cara
"The presence of those seeking the truth is infinitely to be preferred to the presence of those who think they've found it." — Terry Pratchett (Monstrous Regiment)
"The presence of those seeking the truth is infinitely to be preferred to the presence of those who think they've found it." — Terry Pratchett (Monstrous Regiment)