Sex Question....not for the young! LOL

Just adding a little spice to the board.  LOL

Try with some good lubrication. post op with get dehydrated sometimes and less flexible.
Also - magnesium and calcium - help the muscles to relax - without losing the sensitivity.

LOL i love this thread. when i lost 70lbs with the band i was smaller & less padding, so yes it hurt way more than it did before. even these first 20ish pounds have made things more accessible, cant wait for more weight loss!

Yes this thread has gotten interesting.  LOL...face it...this surgery affects more than our appetites.  And that appetite might be improved!!

I never had any issues with sex post-surgery. We had sex again 2 weeks after I left the hospital with no issues.. Where does it hurt?

Um, this might be TMI, but here we go...

Are you taking enough time for foreplay? When I became a Pure Romance consultant, they taught us that as the woman gets aroused, her cervix moves back and up to make her vagina deeper. If you haven't become fully aroused before you begin to have sex, it can make things more painful.

That being said, sometimes you've got to hurry before the kids wake up. When that happens, we just use lots of lube and I get on top so I don't have to go all the way down if I don't want to.

The only down side to losing so much weight is, my husband is active duty in the Air Force so he is in amazing shape & the more weight I lose the easier it is for him to move while he's under me so now he can pick me up off the bed if he wants to go deeper. I'm not mad though. On days I'm not motivated to exercise I just tell myself that I would LOVE for him to be able to stand up & hold me with my legs wrapped around him to do it. That's my motivation for exercising and it works everytime! LOL! That reminds me, I need to hop on the elliptical! HAHAHAHA

Maybe try it on your sides with him behind you? That's a great one!

I hate to say this, but sometimes he wants to do it while I'm cramping before I have my period so I just take some pain medicine (like liquid lortab or vicoden) first. 

Hope this helps and sorry for being so graphic! 

Very informative! LOL  The foreplay thing might would help but he is a "wham-bam thank you ma'am" kinda guy.  That area has never been a strong point in a relationship....which could explain alot!