So did any of you find that sex after this surgery was painful???  Maybe it's too early for this but I'm just getting up the nerve to ask.  It never hurt before but maybe it was because of all the padding!  LOL

It hasn't been for me, at least not after the first three weeks to a month from surgery....does it actually hurt THERE or on your body, lol? Cause I do have hipbones now, and I notice that.

It actually hurts inside.  My stomach and such is fine.

 It was uncomfortable for me for a couple times. I think that with the padding gone things could get more intense so to say. But it is fine now.

Thanks...maybe it wil get better.

I think we waited a couple of weeks cuz I was just too tender, (around the middle) and the first couple times, I was probably sore, but 10 1/2 weeks after surgery it's a-ok. And wow, yeah... hip bones, who knew!??!

LOL...I know...where did those come from?  I'm 12 weeks out and it's still uncomfortable.  It's not female related I wouldn't think because I had a hysterectomy 10 years ago.

This is way TMI so you've been warned!

My partner is very well endowed.  It seems the lack of padding added about an inch and that inch was painful!  I say it was the lack of padding it could have been added flexibility on my part, I don't know.  Regardless I ached for a couple days.  This was a one-off for me and while it was fun, I'm sort of glad we're not an item anymore!

LMAO...too funny.  I think that you are right though.  I just wandered if it was just me.

Ditto what Carrie said.  I have less padding, so my husband (who is very well endowed, too) penetrates further/deeper and it can be really painful.  Luckily he is really understanding and responsive.  I still have almost 100 pounds to go, so this situation may increase.  I guess we'll just have to experiment to find what works! :)