Surgery in 11 days and he leaves now?

SpyCbyN8re
on 7/11/11 8:29 am - Lehigh Acres, FL
I am so glad my mom can come on out too.  She's my best friend and I'm lucky to have her here to help me out during this recovery time and hard emotional time too.  I appreciate your time and kind words.  Thank you.

Ginger
Bonnie J.
on 7/10/11 9:54 am - FL
Hey there Ginger dont let him get you down you will
do great with your surgery God will pull you through
it.. And you dont need all that drama keep your head up...
SpyCbyN8re
on 7/11/11 8:32 am - Lehigh Acres, FL
Thanks Bonnie.  I'm trying to keep my head high and struggle through this.  It's about me this time and I refuse to focus on him.... that's what he's wanting in all of this and it's just not going to happen.  I wrote you an email.  Hope to talk to you soon.

Ginger
Bonnie J.
on 7/12/11 6:39 am - FL
Thats great to hear Ginger...BTW I m here if you need a shoulder to lean on or an ear to listen...

Bonnie
msromagnola
on 7/10/11 10:38 am
Spy - so sorry about your troubles.

One thing I know about me for sure - my weight has nothing to do with the goodness nor the badness of my marriage.

Glad your mom is with you for support.
    

MSROMAGNOLA
SpyCbyN8re
on 7/11/11 8:35 am - Lehigh Acres, FL
Yeah the comment was a bit of a shock.  He's never made mention of my weight before so it was a bit surprising to hear him talk about it in the way he did.  Eh, oh well.  Good to see what he really thinks now I guess. 

I'm glad my mom will be here too.  :) 

Thanks for your comment.
Ginger
acbbrown
on 7/10/11 10:40 am - Granada Hills, CA
Sorry to hear about that :-/

My husband told me a week before surgery he wanted a divorce, and was not going to be helping me out after surgery.(we werent living together anyways..) Such a winner he was. But honestly, it was the best timing, because now I get to deal with all of it, and eating my way out of all of the emotions is NOT an option. So, in a way, it all works out for the better.

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SpyCbyN8re
on 7/11/11 8:38 am - Lehigh Acres, FL
Geez, what a jerk!  I don't understand how they could do these things to us like that.... but you know, I'm glad I see him for who he is now vs. later.  He's saving me time in life and I can't complain on that one, now can I?  Same for yours.

Good luck with your journey!!
Ginger
Cleveland34
on 7/10/11 10:50 am
Ginger...can I tell you something?  You are not the one with the low self-esteem!  Whether you decide together to keep working at you marriage or to call it quits you can hold you head up high knowing you made the right decision for yourself and your children. Praying for God to wrap his arms around you and your family and carry you through this difficult time.
SpyCbyN8re
on 7/11/11 8:40 am - Lehigh Acres, FL
Thank you.  I really appreciate your comment.  And I know you're right... he suffers from low self esteem as well..... it's obvious to everyone around him... except him!  I hope one day he can find happiness and feel fulfilled.  Too bad it wasn't with me.  I'm moving on.... I have to for myself and my kids. 

Thank you,
Ginger
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