OT RANT! Today is my birthday and.....
Take it from someone who has been married to a jerk like that for 20 years..they will never ever remember on their own. A month ahead of time, keep saying things like "So, what are we doing for MY BIRTHDAY in 28 days?" Calendars all over the house with the date circled...in bold red..look up things for you to do that day and ask "Would you like to do this...or this for MY BIRTHDAY in three weeks?"
He never ever has taken a hint in his LIFE so get used to having to tell them all..repeatedly..over and over..otherwise, you will be left with "It's just another day. Why are you upset?" If you are not getting what you need in your mind to make you feel valued, stand up and ask for it. TELL them what you expect to make yourself feel valued or you will never get it and never feel valued..YOU ARE VALUED..
BTW, I love my jerk..he's mostly trained now and I'm used to having to hit him over the head to remind him of important dates..
He never ever has taken a hint in his LIFE so get used to having to tell them all..repeatedly..over and over..otherwise, you will be left with "It's just another day. Why are you upset?" If you are not getting what you need in your mind to make you feel valued, stand up and ask for it. TELL them what you expect to make yourself feel valued or you will never get it and never feel valued..YOU ARE VALUED..
BTW, I love my jerk..he's mostly trained now and I'm used to having to hit him over the head to remind him of important dates..
Yes, RNY worked for me but it also requires a lot of work from me!
Before Surgery: 214
Highest Weight: 240
Now: 125.6
Goal: 130
Before Surgery: 214
Highest Weight: 240
Now: 125.6
Goal: 130
HW 304, SW 291, GW 160, CW 140 H-5'9.5"
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAW Happy birthday Tonya, I live close enough to you to come down there and beat their tails................. all of them................ Hubby too! Let's do this before I become a lightweight! Somebody told me now-a-days People only " Beat Tails " in Mississippi. That's not true, Is it? There is a place in Clinton called Salsa's that has the best T-Bones and 2 for 1 Margaritas............................................................................................... WOW! I just had my 1st setback and I haven't even had my surgery yet! Ima miss the T-Bones & Margaritas!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
P.S. Forgive me for getting off track
Anywayzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
P.S. Forgive me for getting off track
Anywayzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!
IN IT TO WIN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
heres a toast for your special day 
take you a nice bubble bath(calgon or not)
heres a big ole hugg , just for you
a rose for a beautiful lady !!
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