Recovering with small children

Hello. . My sleeve revision to bypass is tomorrow at 9:15 a.m. I have a 2 year old that is very loving :-) and I am worried how I will feel after the surgery. I will be inpatient for 1 night and was told by the nurse that her and my husband can stay overnight with me. I know that I cannot lift her but I am worried that I will be so out of it that I will not be able to give her the attention she needs/wants the day of and the immediate days following surgery. My question is, what was your recovery like? How long will i be out of commission? How long was it before you could resume normal activities with them?

I would love to hear from mommies with little ones that still want to be held.