RYN OR DS

Hello I the RYN done 9/19/2006 and since then I have h

ad 2 children lost 2 parents and gotten married... I know an emotional roller coaster. However I'm waiting on my approval for a revision which was submitted on 10/15/2015. But my question is which one should I get the RYN again or the DS.... I did great kept the wait off for about 8 years and things went down hill after I had the last baby in 2012......please hel me with your opinions on what your experience was or what you of the two... thank you