RNY Revsion to Lapband?
Angel Collector
Cathy
I am so extremely upset that this band has NOT DONE what it is advertised to do. It is supposed to make you feel full off of a small amount of food-NOT! Pre-surgery, I thought I had to bear the agony of embarrassment and shame, but NOW, is a whole 'nother ball of wax. I now am at the bottom of the barrel. I can't even look some folks in the face when I see them-you know, the ones that told me this surgery would not work! I am really upset. Oh and it’s not talk about all those advertisements that speak about the band, and make it seem so promising.
I have had numerous fills and am currently at my max fill, and I still do not have restriction no matter what I eat. I had this surgery because diets do not work for me. I needed to "feel full", and thought this was my answer. Pre surgery, I would always stop eating once I felt full, but the problem was that I never felt full. I thought the band was the answer to my problem. Now, seventeen thousand dollars later, I am back to dieting alone. I can say that the band does prevent me from having to eat 6 meals to feel full, but I still do not feel full on one large plate of food. I still feel the need for seconds and thirds at meal time. I still feel like eating wayyy more than my co-workers and family members when we go out to eat together. This only drives me to eat even more. Once I leave the meeting or the dinner date with family. I am soo hungry and frustrated from watching co[workers or family members eat their small portions and making their comments by saying "I am so full; I cannot eat another bite." I want to say to them, "Hey, that should be me talking. I should be the one saying that I am full after eating only half of my plate of food. After all, I am the one who had weightloss surgery! "'
It seems that all the doctors and nurses do is put it all back on me; which only drives my shame even further. My port has partially detached and is now flipped. I have only lost 29 pounds and it has been nearly two years since my surgery-well, actually it has been since early 2006-more like a year and a half I guess. Seems like years....
Today I am super sensitive, because a co-worker commented on my lap band failure. He said he heard that I was going to have it removed due to it failing. First of all, I never talk to anyone at work regarding my sturggles with the band-especially not about my thoughts on removing it. That is a conversation that I have only had with my husband and best friend, both of which have no contact with anyone from my place of employment. So, now my suspicions are true...People at work are talking about my failure. My failure is evident. I knew it was evident, but now I have confirmation. I immediately I ran to the OH website to look into some help from anyone who will listen. So, Catherine, "tag your it!"
Catherine, thanks for listening to all of my frustration. Hopefully my frustrations have shown you that YOU are not alone either. I feel your pain and hope that your frustrations will end soon too! This weight loss journey is crazy. I thought it was crazy pre-surgery, but now, after surgery it is even more crazy. I guess we have to hang in there until we find what will work for our bodies. I wish you the best of luck and appreciate your candidness in your posting. I no longer feel alone in this fight to be healthy! God bless!
Sincerely,
RH
To anyone else reading this reply that I have made to Catherine.....
I am very happy to see that there is are other options. Can you recommend anyone specific that I can talk to about this? Are there doctors in
Open RNY 1/24/02 First Post-op Baby: Roman Michael 3/29/06
TT w/ Hernia Repair 7/03 Second Post-op Baby: Aurora Marie 1/15/08
LapBand on Pouch 11/06 Breast Reduction/Thigh Lipo/Brachioplasty 6/08
sopralto , I want to say Hi and thank you for all the help you give the revision wannabees. I hope your Stomafx helps your journey. Since my RNY was taken down completely, then I was given the DS, I've had absolutely no problems, lost everything I needed to and couldn't be happier with my DS.
Thanks for letting the peeps know there are more options out there for them.
I try to help all the revision patients who contact me for info on the DS but sometimes I get overwhelmed with so many who need help.