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This Saturday I am participating in the American Cancer Society Relay for Life. The relay is an overnight event; teams camp around the track; member take turns walking the track for the event duration.
I originally joined a team, and I guess I now have my own team. I am asking all my friends to help this cause with a small donation. No more than $5.00, but if you want to give more that would be great. I know times are hard for all of us, and each dollar is golden to one and all.
Cancer claimed the life of my Mom (age 52); Aunt Janie (age 45); various other relatives, and now a very close friend. Currently, two family members are battling it. I have various family and friends who had “a scare", but, praise God, are better now.. I don’t care if you donate to me directly, or the team I am on, or another person/team somewhere else. It all goes to the same cause.
If you donate, and even if you don’t, I will be willing to “honor" anyone who has/had cancer. Please send me their name (PM is fine), and I will create their own personal flyer (note: it’s a cheap, normal, printer paper flyer), and carry their name on various laps, in honor/support of them. It’s the least I can do.
Thanks in advance, and if nothing else, pray for nice weather!!!
Team CANCER IS STOOPID
http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR/RelayForLife/RFLFY12EA?team_id=1121152&pg=team&fr_id=36395
Self
http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR/RelayForLife/RFLFY12National?px=29163316&pg=personal&fr_id=36395
Location of event:
http://main.acsevents.org/site/TR/RelayForLife/RFLFY11National?sid=128433&type=fr_informational&pg=informational&fr_id=36395
Tom
“Nothing I will ever eat will give me the feeling I get as when I lose weight” The views expressed are based on my own experiences - and should NOT BE FOLLOWED IN LIEU OF DOCTOR’S ADVICE/INSTRUCTIONS. Only your Doctor knows your condition, and make sure you talk to them before making any changes to your diet
You hear a lot about the Green Zone (sweet spot, optimal restriction) with gastric bands, the yellow zone (lap band hell, unrestricted) and sometimes being too tight (RED ZONE). The reason I'm bringing this up is to talk about the Red Zone and not being "over-filled". If you are having the symptoms described under "Reduce Fluid" and you have had your fluid removed, it is important to follow up with your bariatric surgeon to determine what is happening with your band. Many people who have been banded for 2 years or more are experiencing random tightening of their bands without additional fill or after a complete unfill.

In addition, other random and seemingly unrelated (to gastric banding) symptoms have been reported by members of OH (www.obesityhelp.com/group/failed_lap_bands/discussion/ ) such as palpitations, dizziness, back pain, reflux, etc.
I have been at the same fill level for 15 months and have been experiencing some of these symptoms. I have been through a slew of cardiac testing and my heart is fine. My cardiologist and my PCP feel that my issues are gastric and I am going to my regular gastroenterologist for evaluation (don't want my band doc involved at this point) of my symptoms.
The reason for my posting is that these symptoms have been going on for months and I attributed it to stress (dealing with FIL's death and estate away from home for 5 months) and didn't seek out help. Waiting to get symptoms evaluated can only lead to damage to internal organs if the symptoms are due to our bands. Don't wait and don't let the doctor tell you that you're not following "the rules".
Many folks have debilitating symptoms such as the ones I describe above, and they have followed all the rules...
This post is purely informational and intended to raise awareness that if your band is too tight or you are experiencing red-zone symptoms without fill, you need to seek medical attention promptly and persistently.
Thanks for reading...
Steph M
Hope everyone is having a amazing week. I've been dealing with WAY too much in my life lately. My hubby has been home sick and he is NOT a good patient at all. LOL Then I have my 26 yr. old still home from Teen Challenge and it is looking like he may end up not returning due to health issues. PLEASE keep him in your thoughts and prayers. He's having heart issues and now it seems that his kidney's are not functioning properly. We have to get all this checked out and when you are his age with no job, money, or insurance it's kinda hard getting help. He's complained for years with back problems but I never associated the back pain with kidney failure. Today I am grateful for my Faith. I do know that I have been grateful for that I believe another day this week...but today I am TRULY grateful for the Faith that I have that the damage won't be too bad. If you know ANYONE who is doing drugs....PLEASE let them know that this could possibly happen to them too. The ER said this is more likely a result of his long time drug use. He has been clean for 10 months now thanks to Teen Challenge. So today I am grateful for my faith that his kidneys won't be too damaged and for God's healing powers and for my faith that he will be healed from all this. PLEASE share with us what you are grateful for today and I am ALSO GRATEFUL FOR YOU !!!! Have a blessed day !!!
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"

GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
Is there anyone out there who can reassure me because I have come too far to start over now? Has anyone been successful with this?
Happy Wednesday to you. I know that today is going to be a great day !!! Today I am grateful for my life even though most of the time it is VERY far from perfect. We have no guarantees of waking up tomorrow. We have to just get our attitudes right and make the best food choices and other choices for our life as we try to improve and make our life as best as possible. Ya know the old saying.....Life is what you make it.....it is SO true. We ALL have choices and can change things in our life and make it much better. Today I am grateful for positive choices that we have the ability to make and for good attitudes and positive thinking so that we WILL be a success in our Weight Loss Journey. PLEASE share with us if you will what you are grateful for and please go out and have a amazing positive day. God bless you.
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"
ObesityHelp is committed to our members’ privacy. Since our inception, we have endeavored to protect the sanctity of our members’ privacy. Over the years, we have been asked to sell and lease our database or grant unrestricted access to the same. We have continually refused all such request as we deem our membership to be our dearest obligation.
ObesityHelp conducts operations in a social network environment which means postings, content, blogs, and any other ancillary information sharing on our website message boards is 100% open and searchable by all major search engines. This means that posting on ObesityHelp requires members to be conscientious of their own levels of comfort when posting any information to the Internet. To support the anonymity of our members we instituted: the screen name process (pseudonyms instead of real names), customizable avatars (no photo required), private messaging (posting on message boards not required), and email privacy (your private email is never displayed by ObesityHelp); just to name a few. This means that anyone can protect their name and privacy simply by taking advantage of the privacy options already included in our site.
Recent linking campaign on Facebook
The linking process was implemented to support threads that the company deemed as universally appropriate and supportive to those that suffer from obesity. With that core support desire in mind, approximately (7) threads were linked to from Facebook. This was done over a period of 3 to 4 days.
Technical clarity
Unlike linking to something with a single unique record locator (URL) when a company site links to a threaded comment [such as ObesityHelp] the Facebook system ‘spiders’ (searches) the URL content for a photo, first few words within the content, and even attached names. This is not something that ObesityHelp initially considered to be at issue as search engines have had access to this information since our inception. However, many members felt the inclusion of their photo (avatar), screen name, and short blurb of the content was a privacy violation. Our intent was never to cause anyone’s privacy to be violated but our effort was to promote support for the individual threaded comments.
To alleviate the issue, ObesityHelp immediately ceased posting threads. At present, only content (articles, blogs, and educational material) is being linked from the company Facebook page.
Why do we feel linking is necessary at all? Support and education are not limited to a singular social network. ObesityHelp operates a Facebook page for the same reason that millions of other companies do; our members are there also.
Was a policy change implemented?
In short, no. The linking of content from various locations including newsletters, Facebook, and other sites has always been something that ObesityHelp has done. However, what made this particular posting different was the way that Facebook automatically grabbed information from the linking source (user generated content on ObesityHelp).
Unless manually removed or changed, the linking takes place with default information included: avatar or photo, link, and minor portions of the content. This was not something that ObesityHelp considered initially bad as the information is public via Google, Yahoo, etc. Once it was brought to our attention that some of the links might contain information that would be considered by some as ‘private’ we immediately ceased posting in this linking method. Please be assured that no policy change has taken place.
How will ObesityHelp handle manual linking on Facebook in the future?
In the future, should ObesityHelp plan to link to specific threads, the company has decided to remove any such identifying markers that would otherwise cause the link to be identified to any specific individual or group. The purpose of the Facebook linking is not to single-out any one specific poster but help promote a general open discussion of the topic(s) at hand.
Sincerely,
ObesityHelp Inc.
Member Services Department
I know from experience that sometimes life seems hopeless and helpless to us all. I am here to let you know....there IS hope and help out there. You just have to search for it. Today I am SO grateful for my Faith. Without my faith I have no idea where I would be. Fear has tired to get to me the last 2 weeks. My son in Teen Challenge has been very ill with his heart acting up and then also many other issues have risen one being his kidneys not functioning properly.....him passing out and getting a concussion & bruised ribs. I know that God is faithful and I have faith that my son will never ever do drugs again. Even though I want him to complete the Teen Challenge program...it just may not happen at this time or at all for that matter. He is 10 months drug free though. He is a NEW person. The son that I knew from 12 to 25 is now a 26 yr. old man of God and I couldn't be prouder of him and the person that he now is. Please keep him in your prayers as we face and overcome these health issues. I hope that I didn't offend anyone with my being grateful for this. I normally don't mention God because I don't want to offend anyone that is not a believer....but I can't be grateful for this without beging grateful to God and my Fatih for the work that he has begun in my son and will complete. Thank you and PLEASE feel free to share if you will what you are grateful for today.
Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian
GOD GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CAN NOT CHANGE; COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS THAT I CAN; AND THE WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE !!!! THIS IS MY DAILY PRAYER.
Vivian Prouty Obesity Help Support Group Coach "LOSE IT 4 LIFE"