If you run into a wall, don't turn around and give up.
Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it.
- Michael Jordan

Hugs and blessings ~~~ Vivian

So, I saw most of my family for the first time since my surgery yesterday. I had seen my mom and aunt about 15 pounds ago, so I don't really count them. Anyway, I walked into lunch and the reaction was awesome! I was actually a little embarrassed that they were making such a fuss over me, but it felt great to show off the "new" me. It's funny to see the reaction of the men versus the women. Take this example:

Woman: You look so great!
Man: You look so much better...

I'm not saying this happens with everyone, but in my family, it's pretty much how it goes. I just smiled and said thank you, whereas the old me would have gotten angry and defensive. This time, I just told the other women and we laughed about it.

Anyway, it was an awesome feeling. My grandmother is a huge influence in my life. She is the strongest woman I know and always will know. It means a lot for her to be proud of me. We are going on a cruise in July (no husband or kids ) and I've been worrying about clothes. I don't want to buy a lot of stuff before then, but at the same time, I have to buy things a little at a time for financial reasons. Just can't go on a "spree." Anyway, my grandmother told me that the week before the cruise, she is going to give me her credit card to buy an entire week's worth of clothes for the cruise!!!!! And she only buys the best, so no Walmart clothes for once . I can't wait!!!

I hope you all had a great Easter!

David,

What a wonderful way to celebrate the day that celebrates Re-Births.

So happy for your success.

You've inspired many today!!

Make sure you post back often.

CONGRATS on all you have accomplished.

 I actually went out and bought coffee for the first time since my surgery yesterday. I didn't have any caffeine until about 2 weeks ago, but have been having a cup in the morning at work. My doctor didn't really put restrictions on caffeine, but said no carbonated drinks and no tea (meaning our typical southern sweet iced tea). They said something in the tea just doesn't work well with surgery. I haven't tried it and (unfortunately) don't intend to. Anyway, the reason I started drinking coffee again is because it works as a diuretic and seem to need that much more than pre-surgery. As Tom always says, do what your doctor tells you. If we had all the answers, we'd be getting paid the big bucks :)

Amy

 That's so cute! My kids are 9 and 10, so right around that same age. And I must say, you DO NOT look old enough to have a granddaughter, much less one that is 8!!!