My name is Tom, and I am an addict!!

You think with my 4 year Band-iversary coming up (January 28th) by now I would have a handle on my eating habits, but this past HOLIDAY only went to show that old habits can resurface. As a result, I gained around 20 pounds. This seems to be a “normal" pattern for me between Thanksgiving and New Year Day.

 

Now I can make a 1,001 excuses why I ate the way I did. I know WHAT I SHOULD HAVE DONE, but I still did what I WANTED to do. I know, you may ask yourself WHY, and the answer is simple, I AM AN ADDICT. Addiction will make us do things we know isn’t right, but we do them anyway. That’s why I empathize with anyone who is dealing with an addiction. While the “masses" may not view obesity as an “true addiction", I think many of us WILL AGREE IT IS.

 

While this type of behavior seems to me a “normal pattern" for me, what is also a “normal pattern" is come January 1, I get BACK ON TRACK by going BACK TO THE BASICS. For those who don’t know what I do, it’s simple. I pretend that I just had the operation, and I go through all my “eating stages" again, beginning with the liquid stage. I recommend to anyone who is struggling to do this. I truly believe this “resets" the body (and/or mind). I usually tell someone to do each stage for a few DAYS (2 – 3 day each stage). However for me, I need to do each stage for a few WEEKS (2 weeks per stage, like I had to do with the operation).

 

While I am embarrassed … ok, HUMBLED, to report a 20 pound again, I am pleasured to report that since January 1, I have already lost 10 of those pounds. Can I assure everyone this kind of loss will occur for them, no. But I can promise, for those who are having issues, that doing this will help them lose, and (hopefully) get their mindset back on the ultimate goal – losing weight. YES!!!

 

For anyone who is new to the bariatric world, or may be thinking about it, I want you to realize this isn’t an easy process. It takes work EVERYDAY to remain successful. Also, you need to realize during your path to success there will be stumbles and/or falls. What we do after those stumbles/falls is EXTREMELY IMPORTANT. We need to get up, dust ourselves off, and remain steadfast down the road of success.

 

I wish each and every one you a very successful 2012. And please know I am always here for you.

 

Thank you for listen….errr reading this.

 

My name is Tom, and I am an addict!!

Hi Tom, I'm Mandi, and I'm also an addict. I did just recently have surgery, but I am finding myself in such a quandry right now (you may want to view my post, so I don't re-bore you with all the details, lol). I'm glad you took the time to share your struggles and thought processes, as it makes me not feel quite so crazy on this journey. I do notice one of my biggest times to fail is when my husband is home. When I smell and/or cook dinner, I start thinking over and over again about how "one small bite" isn't going to hurt, and why not? Well then that osb turns into more than that, and I have already had a dumping episode that was not pleasant. I don't know of any other way to rectify this,  but if you have any suggestions, I'm open to any of them. I'm almost contemplating asking him to eat before he comes home, which is probably not the healthiest thing!

Thanks for listening :-)