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soontobesexi_lexi
on 12/24/10 6:36 am
Words cannot express how angry I am with myself right now.  I had my surgery August 20th.  From the time of surgery until November 11 I lost 47 lbs.  It was the best I had felt about myself ever!  and then......I started letting myself cheat every once in a while.  Now I am eating more than I should, more often, and more of sweets, breads, and everything else I'm not supposed to be eating.  I'm afraid I will go back to my old self and not be able to continue losing weight.  I haven't lost any weight in a month and I have even gained 3 lbs. this week.  I need encouragement and some words of wisdom/advice.  Please please please reply
For all those before me who have shown me that it is possible...thank you!
Tom C.
on 12/24/10 10:00 am - Mount Arlington, NJ

For everyone who hasn't been 100% ... especially with the holidays ... Here is the toughest love you will get .. Yesterday is over and done with. There is nothing we can do about it. Tomorrow is NOW, and it’s time to get yourself back on track.

 

First – remember this isn’t a diet plan; it’s a way of life. So slips, stumbles and falls will occur. What we do when this happens is truly important. You need to get yourself up, dust yourself off, and get yourself to continue down the road to success.

 

What you first need to do is ask yourself “Where did I come from" .. then ask yourself “Why did I do this operation" – basically the answer is because it’s a last resort.

 

You need to realize you are stronger than any craving or any food. It took strength to admit you have a problem you can’t control. It took strength to decide to have an operation. It took strength to do what was needed before and after the operation. It took strength to say “I need help" .. So you have the strength, now you need to call on it.

 

GET BACK TO THE BASICS !! I tell everyone that. Pretend today was day one of the operation and go back to a strict liquid diet. Do this for a few days (maybe a week), then go onto the next stage of soft food then finally regular food. What you are doing it is detoxing your body of the sugars and bad carbs. When you find yourself hungry – eat .. but SENSIBLE foods. Make sure you also follow all the rules.

 

You need to go back and follow the rules that made you successful. You need to have the 64 ounces of NON-CARBONATE/DECAFFEINATED liquid. You need to have your 60 to 80 grams of protein. You need to make sure you don’t drink 30 minutes before/after or during your meal. 

 

What you need to remember is they put the band around your stomach, and not around your brain. You will need to use some self control when it comes to food. If you are hungry stop and ask yourself is this real hunger or head hunger. Asking that alone will probably be an indication it’s head hunger, so you know what to do. Get busy doing something else. If that doesn’t work, EAT – but SOMETHING HEALTHY. Have some salad; vegetables, PROTEIN, etc.

 

REMEMBER what it took to make you successful. YOU CAN DO IT !! And know I am here if you need me.

Finally, "naturally" thin people go through this all the time. So we're in great company !! Now – get off your a55 – stop making excuses – and (sorry Nike) JUST DO IT !!

Good Luck on your Journey !!

Tom

“Nothing I will ever eat will give me the feeling I get as when I lose weight”  The views expressed are based on my own experiences - and should NOT BE FOLLOWED IN LIEU OF DOCTOR’S ADVICE/INSTRUCTIONS. Only your Doctor knows your condition, and make sure you talk to them before making any changes to your diet
soontobesexi_lexi
on 12/25/10 8:43 pm

Thanks Tom!  You're right :)  No more excuses!  I think starting over is my best bet too.  I've done all liquids once and I can do it again!  I'll go get all the liquids i'll need and start tomorrow.  I'll give you an update in a week :)

For all those before me who have shown me that it is possible...thank you!
Angelica M.
on 12/28/10 3:10 am - Hobart, OK
 Im sorry that u went thru this. I had my surgery in july and i have been slipping up since thanksgiving. i had gallbladder problems and found myself eating a salad/hard boiled egg... protein shake diet... and as soon as i had the gallballder removed, i went crazy! it felt like i had no restriction. i ate and ate and ate. i even stopped working out... it was HORRIBLE i felt horrid....needless to say i went from loosing 40lbs and being 191 to gaining it back and being 201.. im so ashamed..but toms words are right and im going to follow his advice and go back to basics! i had a protein shake for breakfast and will have  soup for lunch!...


THANK YOU TOM!
soontobesexi_lexi
on 12/28/10 10:50 pm
I started 2 days ago like I said I would!!!  That doesn't usually happen lol   I did the liquid diet for 2 days and as of this morning I've lost 4 lbs.   I'm trying to decide if I should do it longer....  It's crazy how much my confidence in myself has got up so fast!!
For all those before me who have shown me that it is possible...thank you!
Tom C.
on 12/29/10 7:16 am - Mount Arlington, NJ
Well I am confident you will succeed!! And if you stumble for a day or so, know you can get back on track!!! Make sure 2011 will be your year!!
Good Luck on your Journey !!

Tom

“Nothing I will ever eat will give me the feeling I get as when I lose weight”  The views expressed are based on my own experiences - and should NOT BE FOLLOWED IN LIEU OF DOCTOR’S ADVICE/INSTRUCTIONS. Only your Doctor knows your condition, and make sure you talk to them before making any changes to your diet
Angelica M.
on 1/2/11 12:24 pm - Hobart, OK
 I too went back and i saw the scale move! it was great!  it did change my out look quickly!  Im so happy to have seen this on here thank you all!!!!
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