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REALIZE Band on 09/03/09 with
On January 10, 2010 at 2:05 PM Pacific Time, LillieGracesMom wrote:
I will be having the Realize band surgery in a few weeks. How do you handle emotional eating once you are banded? I am a major emotional eater and wonder what others have done to combat this since being banded. Thanks for your replies.
I was lucky to get a good amount of restriction at my first fill, so I know I am lucky not to have dealt with the "hell" that people talk about between their surgery and restriction.
For me, the band literally stops me because when I emotionally eat, I either feel it backing up in my esophagus or it hurts or I get reflux the next morning. Now when I look at what used to be comfort food, I don't see comfort, I see pain, and my momentary pang leaves quickly.
Now I am starting to see food as the fuel I need to get me through the day, not a poor substitute for a therapist!!!
For me, the band literally stops me because when I emotionally eat, I either feel it backing up in my esophagus or it hurts or I get reflux the next morning. Now when I look at what used to be comfort food, I don't see comfort, I see pain, and my momentary pang leaves quickly.
Now I am starting to see food as the fuel I need to get me through the day, not a poor substitute for a therapist!!!
Well emotional eating is something I think most of us deal with prior to and after surgery. I too have restriction after my first fill and just simply can't eat what I used to. I am making better food choices and when I'm full I stop. It's not like before where I would just push past the full feeling and gorge myself. The band is really a great tool for that. Or at least for me it is. I also make a conscious decision to eat better, protein, yogurt, cottage cheese. I haven't really had any breads or pasta. I'm really full after I eat so I'm satisfied.
I am an eater...obviously. I would go so far to say I am a food addict. I now have 9.7 ccs in my band and I can't over eat, even if I try. If I eat one bite too much, it comes right back up on me. So there is some emotional eating but it's a couple of bites and then I can't eat anymore. Weird thing is I crab all of the time about getting enough restriction but I still kind of miss "pigging out".
Focus on some new outlets and strategies. Go buy some books, maybe see a therapist if you feel your not getting it under control. I think just like everything else with this surgery, it's learning and creating a new you with new habits and coping strategies. It's hard, but you will do it too. :D
Good luck on your surgery, that is very exciting!
Boo
Good luck on your surgery, that is very exciting!
Boo
Boo
04/20/2009- Started Pre-Op Diet at 281 pounds
09/16/2009- Had Surgery at 248 pounds
11/19/2009- 1st fill of 4 cc's
12/15/2009- 2nd Fill of 1 cc
01/28/2010- 3rd Fill of .5 cc
04/01/2010- 4th Fill of .3 cc
Ultimate Goal Weight: 140
04/20/2009- Started Pre-Op Diet at 281 pounds
09/16/2009- Had Surgery at 248 pounds
11/19/2009- 1st fill of 4 cc's
12/15/2009- 2nd Fill of 1 cc
01/28/2010- 3rd Fill of .5 cc
04/01/2010- 4th Fill of .3 cc
Ultimate Goal Weight: 140