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Well bless your heart. At least you can see it and you care. Maybe for a while you should let her be in charge of food shopping and preparation(this is what my fiancee has done with me), because she knows what she can handle and that way you aren't tempting her with things she can't.
How you can be supportive? Ask. Ask her "What is the hardest thing for YOU about WLS?" and then tell her what is hard for you. Ask her how she is feeling about her body changes and how she is feeling physically. And make sure to tell her how you are feeling about things as well. I'm sure she knows that she isn't the only one going through changes.
I am so repsecful of your dedication to your wife. I will be praying for you both.
Amy