Hello, girls Great topic! 4 years ago I became a mother thanks to IVF. My husband and I are raising a daughter. And I am grateful to fate for this. But we were doing ITF with donor eggs abroad. This theme has a lot of nuances, both medical and legal, about which parents should be aware. But sometimes this is the only possible solution for many couples!

How are you now?
Found a new man?

How did it go ?

Due to nothing to do with my RNY, I had an issue getting pregnant and being able to have several children. I decided that I was no longer going to dwell on it, was scheduled to get permanent device implants to avoid any future pregnancies, 8mos later, my son was born in 2004.

I stuck with my normal daily 800cals, but if I had a healthy craving I would eat/drink it, and on a few occasions he wanted a chili dog from sonic, a whopper jr from BK, and taco bell. Ate just until I felt full, and then waited for the next craving, thankfully that didn't happen much.

I know that you are at a very early stage, but if you are taking your shakes, you might be "healthier" than you think. Just make sure that your bariatric surgeon/staff is communicating with your OB/Gyn, and vice versa. Don't stress is probably something you will role your eyes and if I was in your position I'm sure I would too. But just try to relax when you can, enjoy the fact that something wonderful has happened to you. Talk to friends and family for support, or jump on here! Maybe check with a support group in your local area for women going thru situations while pregnant.

Keep your head up, if religious, you're probably praying more right now than you ever have. I know I did! But either way, I will be praying for you and your little one. ~Blessings to both. ~Jen

Hi there! Congrats!

I had RNY in 2001, went from 368 to 168, and in Oct 2004 had my beautiful son. I gained 20lbs during the pregnancy. Dr. that I found was monitoring me weekly and checking my intake journal. I had a huge craving for whole milk, and although I am lactose intolerant, apparently my son wanted it.

He was healthy and weighed 6lbs 8oz, 19in long and was induced 3wks early due to my own health issues that I had prior to my RNY.

Just find a Dr (if you haven't already), that is devoted to staying on top of things.

I wish that absolute best for you and your little one!

Your ability to have a baby is inspiring to me. Im 39, have pcos, had VSG march of 2017 and am currently 160lbs. I see it took you a little time to get pregnant after surgery. Was there anything you did, like infertility visits, to help the process? Thanks for any advice you may have!