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So I am 38 weeks pregnant! Two more weeks til D Day! So I've fallen pretty hard, up about 20lbs; in the beginning was easy to stay on track, then I got hungry. too hungry. I'm worried I've ruined everything. I want to start getting back on track, like now. I kept blaming it all on being pregnant, now I worry I've stretched my stomach, and have fallen back into my big girl ways of eating. Will it get better? Can I fix this? Am I doomed? I'm truly scared, that I've just lost it all. & on top of that, do I even know how to get back on track? (I got pregnant 9 months post-op)
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I've wasted too much of my life struggling with weight and health issues. Not right now but a few years from now I would like to start a family with the right man.
My problem is ... on one hand I have a very willing " sperm donor" who literally tries to screw me five times a day... but who wants " lunch " and ' dinner " and a me to clean " our (read .. my mortgage my responsibility ) house whle all the money he makes is his ...
Dont know whether I want chase the sucker with a dustpan ( yes ive done that and he called an ex grrlfriend 4 shelter ... ugh !!! ) but of course I do love him ..... grrrr
he did make me pregnant
( hes very busy doing just that ) :o
I'm a little old 4 this .. I just had plastic surgeries to perfect my body
but yes I would love to have his and my children
( crazy me)
Dump the loser, find a man who will treat you as his equal, and if you truly want children seek out a surrogacy agency, but do your research. You could always adopt.
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If you're getting pregnant but not able-- physically or emotionally-- to carry a child, you may want to look into long-term birth control options. An IUD is a good choice, or your gyno may have other suggestions.
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!
on 6/2/16 5:57 pm
All I can say is I'm totally fertile-myrtle I get pregnant ( all the time )at least ( confirmed by doctors) twice since surgery five years ago . Carrying is a problem ... the hormones the depression the overwhelming fear of being abandoned left alone ....
I madly love my fiancé but he is totally inappropriate for me ... I just cant carry our children to term because I'm worried so much about finances infidelity .
How do you all do it ?
on 6/2/16 5:47 pm
I've wasted too much of my life struggling with weight and health issues. Not right now but a few years from now I would like to start a family with the right man.
My problem is ... on one hand I have a very willing " sperm donor" who literally tries to screw me five times a day... but who wants " lunch " and ' dinner " and a me to clean " our (read .. my mortgage my responsibility ) house whle all the money he makes is his ...
Dont know whether I want chase the sucker with a dustpan ( yes ive done that and he called an ex grrlfriend 4 shelter ... ugh !!! ) but of course I do love him ..... grrrr
he did make me pregnant
( hes very busy doing just that ) :o
I'm a little old 4 this .. I just had plastic surgeries to perfect my body
but yes I would love to have his and my children
( crazy me)
My periods were funky post-op and I had an IUD, so I bought a box of ovulation tests. Not the fancy digital ones, just a bunch of strips that you dunk in a cup of pee. They were much more helpful than taking my temperature!
Have you tried a fertility phone app? I used one called Ovia (I think?) where I could put in my basal temperature, test results, cervical mucus, and discharge. That really helped me to figure things out and it gives an alert for the few days you should really "go for it!"
Sparklekitty / Julie / Nerdy Little Secret (#42)
Roller derby - cycling - triathlon
VSG 2013, RNY conversion 2019 due to GERD. Trendweight here!
Well I'm back. I was here in 2012. My son is now 3.5 and I'm trying for baby #2
Tomorrow i I will be 36yrs old and I think it's working against me. I used to have normal cycles till Jan of this year when they started going to 30-33 days. :/ in March I swore j was pregnant. I had all the symptoms and was a few days late. Then I got my period. That was painful. April I didn't even try bc I didn't want the heartache. I had my period in time day 30. Last month I tried and the same thing that happened in march Happened. I was late, had all the symptoms, then got my period 4 days late. I'm convinced I got pregnant both times and it went away. I had a very early miscarriage before my son. I have PCOS but it's under control As is my weight and diet. But it's like this year some clock went off and my hormones went all outta whack.
Has this happened to anyone else? Any advice? I'm gonna start charting my temps and I bought some ovulation tests as I find myself clueless. I used I know exactly when I ovulated bc I was always on time. Sigh.
Any advice or....anything that might boost fertility? Naturally? I don't want to go to hormones. That is my last resort.
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