6 months post op RNY and just had a positive pregnancy test

Yeah your right but I didn't probably just like 80% of the us population, do u feel better now? Belittling someone who has owned up to making a mistake ? Guess what? In the end your still the one with the fertility issues and I feel sorry for you. Go post on someone else's blog with your antics, everyone has different coping mechanisms I guess bringing others down who have options about pregnancies is yours. Best of luck, you'll need it

No the mistake on your part , you use abortion as your method of birth control.  (and I am not a pro-life, pro-choice person, I am a make the right choice the first time person!) There are plenty of families that would love to adoption- I would hope that if you feel that if you can't afford to have this baby that you make the right decision and let someone adopt the baby and give it a lifetime of love!

 BTW- you are the one that put your situation out there and was asking for opinions, I give you my honest opinion of the situation you put forth, sorry if it's not all lollipops and rainbows, but I let you know how I felt.

And- I'm not the one with my fertility issues my DH is!  His service in the US Navy and all the inoculations that he was given that is the cause of fertility issues.

You are forgetting that your "pro life" speech is YOUR own opinion and I respect that but you shouldn't put someone else down who made it clear in her first blog that if u were prolife not to even comment, it's just called respect, respect my own opinions, you can add your say and advise but not mock me. I am keeping this baby even tho I can't afford it, your tax $ will help that (thank u) now leave the subject alone 

I am in the exact same boat.

i'm 7months post op...and almost 9 weeks preggo.  I was terrified and scared .  when i first found (at 6 weeks 3 days) i FREAKED OUT. I had a break down in the nurses office.  I was debating on getting an abortion and silently praying for a miscarriage because I felt my mother helped me get this surgery (which took much convincing) and i can barely support myself at 25 and fresh out of college myself. 

I was so scared of gaining weight...but so far i've lost 10lbs so now im down to just 10lbs shy of my surgeons goal weight.  I dont know what to say to make things better but i will pray for you. If you need someone to talk to im here we can be friends..sounds like we have a similar story.

Life's not fair. So many times people who want a baby very badly, who are financially able to raise a baby can't get pregnant, and then people who are not planning for and not wanting a baby are the ones who get pregnant.

I hope it works out for you and your family with keeping the baby, and I hope you get a great job when you graduate college so you can work hard and pay back that tax payer money you're "borrowing" to get by now.