woohoo!! tomorrow finally!!!
Tomorrow i find out if i'm having a girl or a boy! woohoo!!! god i've been waiting FOREVER to get to this point. and people keep saying stuff like "oh, you want to find out the sex?" or "oh why don't you take a piece of paper to the baker and be surprised like everyone else?" PFTTTT ***** please!!! after what i've been through to get here? i mean, i held it in for 3 months that i was even pregnant. i'm done with all that. i wanna find out this second what i'm having!! i want to give my sweet baby a name! i can't wait. i'm already feeling closer and i know this will just bring me 10 times closer to this baby.
my husband is being different. he doesn't trust the u/s tech bc someone told him a story about how they told them the wrong sex and at 9 months they had to change all the boy stuff to girl stuff and pick a new name. and he doesn't want to get attached to it now and have it change bc he'll feel like the first baby died. poor thing. he's really shell shocked from the whole miscarriage thing. i guess he gave his heart to the idea of a baby the first go around and with this one we were both cautious. but at 3 months i gave in to the joy of being pregnant and he is still very reserved. i can tell thats why he's distant. he's afraid of being hurt again. i feel bad for him but i really wish he would let it go because he's missing out on precious bonding time. i hope he comes around. i think he'll feel more comfortable with an extra ultrasound. so i'm gonna see if thats possible in 2 weeks.
anyway i can't believe i finally made it to 18 weeks!!!! i can't wait to find out! i think i'm gonna cry in that doctors office. :)
and yay for MrsDores who's finding out tomorrow as well!!!
my husband is being different. he doesn't trust the u/s tech bc someone told him a story about how they told them the wrong sex and at 9 months they had to change all the boy stuff to girl stuff and pick a new name. and he doesn't want to get attached to it now and have it change bc he'll feel like the first baby died. poor thing. he's really shell shocked from the whole miscarriage thing. i guess he gave his heart to the idea of a baby the first go around and with this one we were both cautious. but at 3 months i gave in to the joy of being pregnant and he is still very reserved. i can tell thats why he's distant. he's afraid of being hurt again. i feel bad for him but i really wish he would let it go because he's missing out on precious bonding time. i hope he comes around. i think he'll feel more comfortable with an extra ultrasound. so i'm gonna see if thats possible in 2 weeks.
anyway i can't believe i finally made it to 18 weeks!!!! i can't wait to find out! i think i'm gonna cry in that doctors office. :)
and yay for MrsDores who's finding out tomorrow as well!!!
How exciting! Hopefully he or she will be in good position and they can see. I do understand what your hubby feels. It happens more than people think... (that the US techs are wrong about sex... especially girls who are actually boys) Friend of mine was told on 3 occasions she was having a girl with her pregnancy only to deliver a beautiful baby boy. He hubby literally ran home and re painted the nursery while she and baby were in the hospital!!
Also hope that the organ screening shows everything developing well!
Let us know how the appointment goes...
Also hope that the organ screening shows everything developing well!
Let us know how the appointment goes...
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