Lets talk about vaginas...

Be patient! I think I didn't even attempt sex again until my son was 4 months old and then it was pretty painful for several more months. I think the pain is from pulling at scar tissue as it stretches. If it continues to be too painful, you probably need to talk to your doctor, you may need to use vaginal dilators to help stretch the scar tissue gradually.

Well i had my first almost 8yrs ago and she ripped me a new butthole.  I with episotomy and tore half way around my rectum needless to say my vajayjay was ruined.  Sex i awful and painful.  I told my GYN (female) about the pain and she kept saying it was just dry and offered a script but i said no it feels like the opening is much smaller and she blew me of***** a new GYN and he too didn't believe me and agian just said it was dryness causing the prob.  Trust me when we do have sex there i a multitude of lub involved and still i just close my eyes and wait for it to be over.  I have a new GYN due to the other one moving and he has said the same, so guess i am just screwed.  My hubby even complains about me being too tight and he gets brush burn.  I don't know what to say, no one has been anyhelp.  I'm hoping that with this one i cn have a VBAC and maybe they can clean up the scar tissue making it a little better.

Tiff

Not that I do not hold all vaginal birth mommies in the highest regards, I'm so glad I've never had the desire to shoot a kid out of my vagina.

I'm sorry you're dealing with this situation, I honestly can not imagine the discomfort, pain, and noises! ! !