wish me luck!

 ...you better lose yourself in the mucus, the moment, you want it, you better never let it go. you only get one shot do not miss your chance to blow. this opportunity comes once in a cycle....

this is the pep talk i'm gonna give my husband today.

i went to the RE today and did an ultrasound. they dont' explain the ultrasounds to me. i just see blobs. and the u/s tech has an attitude so i stopped asking questions. she says i'm ovulating. well yeah, the opk told me that. can you tell me something more detailed than that? sheesh. but it seems like things are going well the doctor seemed very pleased. they gave me one of the HCG shots. i have to keep the other one in the fridge until i come back i guess. man i was sooo scared it was gonna hurt but honestlty it was just a ***** whew!! i'm so scared of needles. or anything sharp really.

i am..since 2am last night...so uncomfortably bloated and cramping. the doc said this would happen from the clomid. but ooof. i can't even cough, it hurts. and last night we were supposed to have sex so they could do a post coidal test. and we tried. god how we tried. i used lidocaine and preseed (which always does he trick) but with this cramping the last thing i wanted to do was have sex. my husband said there was no moisture. even with the lube. it wasn't slippery. if felt like he was just massaging skin in there. that sounds awful. no wonder he gave up. but its frustrating because thats never happened before (EVER) and he really needs to ********* inside of me dammit!! this is important!!! grrrrr. and of course i'm all sore from trying so much yesterday. :/ we'll try tonight but i'm worried the same thing will happen. is my body working against me? sheesh. 

wish me luck!! i'll let you know how it goes.

You  are right you need him! Get creative, have him watch something interested and get him "warmed" up this way he is not on top so much. Good luck!!
I went though the same thing the pressure gets to them like it does us. I had to get VERY creative!!
The problem was I was too creative and now he wants that "creativeness" all the time!
Good luck..

 haha oh no you give them a taste of gourmet and they want it all the time ;)

Good luck! Try to relax and tell hubby to use forplay! Breath and allow yourself to enjoy it, you're more likely to get what you need when you're not as stressed about it! Our bodies will revolt and shut down when we're stressed out! Before hand maybe take a hot shower, have DH give you a nice back rub and start playing and let things happen! Have fun with it, try not to make it a chore or a HAVE to kinda thing! 

Very creative with the song lyrics, lol. Did you try inserting some pre-seed up inside your vagina prior to sex? My bottle came with applicators for me to do that. It would make me very wet, very fast. Good luck tonight! ;)

 yes of course. thats what i did. thats why i'm so confused as to why it wasn't slippery at all. :/

 MelT why are you posting on here when you should be busy banging  your husband LOL