update

Ah men... the ultimate feeling stuffers.  Yet another reason why I'm married to a woman. LOL.  Just keep acknowledging his feelings, validating his involvement in all of this, and telling him and showing him how much you love him.  He'll process through this in his own way - just as you are.

 thanks maryn :)

I'm sorry you are going through a rough time Meli :(
I don't really have any advice because a miscarriage is so different for everyone. I had a VERY hard time as well... very very hard. I will say though that getting pregnant again (and so far successfully!) has been very healing for me. I realized that for me, a huge part of the grief that I was feeling was fear. Fear that I would never get pregnant again. Fear that if I did it would end in miscarriage. When I got pregnant again it helped ease some of that fear for me, which in turn helped heal some of the grief. Do what you need to do to feel better! And try not to beat yourself up! You're doing the best you can to get through this.
Hugs, Nikki

thanks nikki :) 

ALso I wanted to add, I hope you have great success with the clomid. I hope you are able to become successfully pregnant very soon so that you might feel better like I have felt better.

 thank you nikki. i'm hoping :)