didn't really want to post, but needed to talk

I caved in, and had unprotected sex 1 1/2 weeks ago. I know I know I am only 7 months out and still 30 lbs from goal. I encouraged women to wait and I didn't. sorry for the hypocrisy.  Now I don't know if it is wishful thinking or I am showing signs of pregnancy. sore boobs, and back could be explained by PMS. But the nausea and general sleepiness is not my normal PMS symptoms. Every time I eat I get a almost car sickness nausea. not to the point of vomiting yet just general all around feel yucky. It would be a waste of money to poas till this weekend (which I did anyways Monday night..way too early bfn) So I am excited of the possibility of being pregnant, but not wanting to get my hopes up and crashed again. just asking for prayers either way it goes 

Hi Kelley,

First off, good one on you for being honest!! Most would have never said a thing. It happens from time to time people get pregnant sooner than the optimal time period in which our surgeons tell us. However, this does not mean that it is a bad thing, it will just be more challenging then for instance someone like myself. Why.. I can remeber at 7months I was still having issues getting my water in, and my food. Sometimes I would just do what I could and move onto the next day, however with yourself you will just have to push yourself a little harder to ensure you get everything in. If, you are the same as me.

Have you started to take your prenatal pills and folic acid? From what I have been told, what it says on the bottle double.. I have RNY, having VSG - that may be differnt.

Either way, I wish you luck!

Carroe

Thank you Carroe, I have been consistently getting my water and protein in for months, taking my regular vitamins, adding folic acid today. again thank you.

HEY stop beating yourself up...your human.  We make mistakes.  
I too got preggo early out at 9months but I miscarried.  AS soon as I found out i was so happy but scared at the same time.  I was very scared to tell my surgeon's office but the PA was happy for me and said you know "sometimes life gets in the way"!  So really don't beat yourself up.  If you are pregoo great!  And if your not....then brush yourself off and continue to concentrate on your weight loss cause your year out is just around the corner.
WITH that being said.....It def. sounds like you could be preggo....did you test yet?

Took a test this morning, Negative. So it's just been a case of horrible PMS and I guess I am coming down with something cause I still feel like poop. now just waiting on AF to show up and getting down tobussiness getting this last 30 lbs off. Thank you for your post  and so sorry for your loss, I have had several miscarriages myself and know the heartache.