No baby
Thank you for the support. I talked to my daughter and she understood, she told me she was sad but she wanted to see mommy happy. She is such a good girl. My 3 year old was ok with it she just said "i love you mommy"
So far no cramping no bleeding, i hope it happens quick and soon i really dont want intervention, ill go see my doctor again next week.
My husband keeps telling me we are gonna be ok and will try again as soon as the doctor give us the ok. Hopefully ill be back soon with good news and this time a baby inside.
Thank you again
Norma
So far no cramping no bleeding, i hope it happens quick and soon i really dont want intervention, ill go see my doctor again next week.
My husband keeps telling me we are gonna be ok and will try again as soon as the doctor give us the ok. Hopefully ill be back soon with good news and this time a baby inside.
Thank you again
Norma
Norma,
I'm so sorry for your loss. We had this happen twice, then after that had a pregnancy through the 15th week and discovered baby had died. I had to tell my daughter (6 y.o.) and it was really hard for her to understand.
I explained, that sometime babies get very sick and die, just like older people... she seemed to accept that.
And, take heart. AFter this last miscarriage in May, I got pregnant 6 weeks later!!! So, keep your chin up, but take time to grieve. It hurts whenever miscarriage happens.
Blessings to you and your family!
I'm so sorry for your loss. We had this happen twice, then after that had a pregnancy through the 15th week and discovered baby had died. I had to tell my daughter (6 y.o.) and it was really hard for her to understand.
I explained, that sometime babies get very sick and die, just like older people... she seemed to accept that.
And, take heart. AFter this last miscarriage in May, I got pregnant 6 weeks later!!! So, keep your chin up, but take time to grieve. It hurts whenever miscarriage happens.
Blessings to you and your family!
I'm so sorry for your loss, Norma. I too had a MC last Dec. MC's are so much more common than people think. At my age (41) the chances of a MC are actually higher than that. One thing that you absolutely need to know is that you did not do anything to cause it. It just happens. The human reproductive process is extremely flawed and it just happens. It's primarily a function of a chromosonal imbalance and the MC is nature's way of letting that go. A fetus with significant chromosonal imbalances would not survive.
During this time, be gentle with yourself. It can be physically and emotionally draining to go through a MC - it absolutely was for me. One thing my wife said to me the day we found out I was having a MC was so comforting and I pray this can bring you comfort too. She said, "honey, that was not our child. If it was our child, then you would still be pregnant."
You will probably bleed a lot for a couple weeks. That is nature's way of releasing the extra lining that has built up in your uterus. It will be heavy. Make sure you take a little extra iron supplements during this time so you do not become enemic.
During this time, be gentle with yourself. It can be physically and emotionally draining to go through a MC - it absolutely was for me. One thing my wife said to me the day we found out I was having a MC was so comforting and I pray this can bring you comfort too. She said, "honey, that was not our child. If it was our child, then you would still be pregnant."
You will probably bleed a lot for a couple weeks. That is nature's way of releasing the extra lining that has built up in your uterus. It will be heavy. Make sure you take a little extra iron supplements during this time so you do not become enemic.
Our little miracle baby boy is on his way!
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