how bout that?

 you're right, it hasn't been that long. and i know it will happen. i just get impatient like i do with everything else in life. lol. instant gratification got me into trouble and to 260lbs. its a bad trait of mine. 

thanks for the vibes :) haha i joke with my friend all the time how if her husband sneezes she gets pregnant. lol.

I totally understand that this is half joking and half not. It's really hard not to be bitter at people who get pregnant so easily (especially when you see it happening to people that you don't think will be the best parents...Teen Moms on MTV anyone?). We tried for 5 years and it felt like EVERYONE I knew started getting pregnant and having kids during that time. It was really hard to be happy for my friends. I stopped going to baby showers unless I was really good friends with the person because it was just too hard. I don't think you rubbed anyone the wrong way with this post, I think people are just empathizing with you! It is true that you haven't been trying long, but until you know your body can do it, it's hard to not feel like "is this EVER going to happen?". So I totally understand. Both of my sisters were fertile myrtles. It was hard when I found out that I had to do a lot more than look at my husband to get pregnant since that's how it seemed it was all my sisters had to do (0:

Hope you get your BFP soon lady!

Tina

 ha! so true. my doc checks me out and says ok you're good, you're ovulating, you have a follicle, go forth and bone. and i bone, i bone my heart out! and nothing. lol. i'm taking a diff approach this month. not even gonna check for ovulation. just whatever. i think i need to back off and let it happen when it happens. bc this way is not  getting me anywhere but dissappointed. 

thank you tina :) i appreciate it :)

I am taking the same approach as you on this topic. We aren't going to be preventing it at all but i am going to be aware of when I ovulate still and as you say bone bone bone.. By the way that made me LOL. I still have about a week left before I can test. I'm going to try to not get disappointed as well.

Good Luck sweety

Jana

 good luck!! you can't help but get excited. but what helped me not be so down last time was i kept saying to myself its not gonna happen, i'm gonna get my period. i kept telling myself that. that way if you get your period you're prepared mentally. and if you don't get it, hey happy surprise.

good luck! and have fun trying!

I understand completely where you are coming from I know people who were not trying at all and were completely devastated about being pregnant and I was just like wow he I am struggling and they have a a precious gift and a are upset. I have to take a step back before I put my foot in my mouth. My DH has an appt to test his soldiers this Friday I am praying all comes out well. I hope you and all the others trying will get their BFP soon!! 

 i hope the test results are positive! good luck! and thank you!