For those of you who judge

This goes out to the people who seem to think that they can judge a person on how they should grieve over a loss that is as great as having a sleeping baby or having a baby/babies that goto sleep a short time after they are born. NICU, DIESEASE, SIDS...

Who are you to say when it is appropriate for a couple to try again after such a loss? EACH person grieves their own way, they have their own beliefs and thought process. HOW dare YOU think you can control this persons life and make decisions for them? We dont get after you about how you go on and on and on about having a miscarriage. WE GET IT. Until you have lost a baby to something that we cant control, as in "sleeping baby" or a premature baby/babies born early because of reason WE cant explain? shut the hell up.

UNTIL you have experienced a loss of a child after they are born and have gotten to hold them etc...you have NO RIGHT to tell people what is right and wrong. I HOPE TO GOD noone ever has to go through that, unfortunately it happens. I am sorry, believe me i am.

Heres my out look god takes and god gives and if I wasnt ready he wouldnt of blessed us again people just need to get a life that all I will say!

and the sad thing here is most of us have had problems having babys here so you would think they would understand.

this is so powerful

Wow, where did this come from?  I agree with you.....just wondering if I missed something?

You didn't miss anything someone was just gossiping about me getting pregnant to soon after the lose of my girls and saying I shouldnt be trying yet she was just looking out for me!