For those who think I should be waiting and love to gossip this is for you!

I don't really think its for you to judge how early or to soon it is for me to get pregnant.I really dont think its any of your business really.You don't know what I have been through unless you have lost a baby of your own.I'm not doing this to replace them because nothing ever will.I have tried for 6 years to have a baby and I'm not getting any younger.Just because I have gone on with my life doesn't mean its to soon.I guess I'm suppose to just sit and cry my eyes out that's not normal.I have grieved and everyone does it in their own way.I pick to move on with my life.Its not for you to say what I do with my life.Just  showes who ever you are and want to gossip that you need a life.Sorry for those *****ad this that have wished the best and understand what I have been through.I just hate people who gossip shows they have nothing better to do with their time.Hate me if you want I dont  care.People like this are heartless!

I shouldn have to explain to anyone here why Im doing this its my life!

You don't owe an explanation to anyone! You do what's best for you and your family and if others don't like it, they don't have to be part of your life!

I think I missed something....  But, I'm so sorry if someone said they thought it was too soon for you to get pregnant!  How dare they!  No one knows you and what's best for you except you!

I am so happy for you that you've gotten a BFP.  Don't listen to what anyone says.... YOU know what's right for you and your family!  You're absolutely right you should never have to explain why you are doing anything!!

Blessings and peace to you Jen!

You didn't miss anything here........People are just heartless and like to enjoy conversations about other people behind their back that's it.Its not for anyone to judge me in what I do with myself or my life.I have been supportive to people here  in my rough time I went through and then I get this.

I can care less if they talk go for it......it doesn't bother me I just wanted them to know I know and just shows they have nothing better to do with themselves and their time.


I know you know what I have gone through you have been there and thank you for always listening.

Who is saying things like that to you Jennifer? Is it your family? I'm so sorry you are experiencing people being lame. I totally get why you started TTC as soon as you can. After all that you have been through... people have no right to judge. I like that old belly button quote.... opinions are like belly buttons, everybody's got one. haha

Family no a few people here yes and I agree with your quote.

really? was this needed? this is just going to give them more to talk about... if you really care that much about what people say ( and from this post it looks like you do) then you have a lot of work to do.

Yes really it was needed this is suppose to be a group people can come to and share story's and such with.I don't care just goes to show how some people can be so heartless and its no ones damn business what I do to soon or not.

and what do you mean I have a lot of work to do please enlighten me.
I just wanted those who people here who like to gossip know I know its as simple as that.
They know who they are!

i do think you care though... and your right.. its no ones business... i think people are worried about your physical health and also your mental health... pregnancy takes alot out of people.. and loss takes more... do you really think that if they are gossiping about you that they care if you know who they are? .. i really doubt it.. what i ment was- alot of your posts ( both fb and on here) have been kind of angry... being angry isnt healthy... however it is one of the steps of greiving... the next one is acceptance.. and i think your in the middle of the two... and there is no time frame for the steps .. no one expects you to sit around and cry and eat bon bons all day... thats not healthy at all.. this isnt high school.. your an adult and really shouldnt care what people say about you... if they have nothing better to do then talk a bunch of crap about things they dont know about then let them... you and your husband know the truth... so let them talk.. they will look like the idiots in the end.. thats all.

Really your telling me I have angry really  .....your telling me where I'm at with my grieving you have no clue and that's just a nice way to say it.Yes I was very upset god took my girls who wouldn't be and second I have accepted it and i don't think that for you to say or judge and that's what you are doing.My point prov en.Unless you have gone through what I have you really have no reason to voice where I should be at my grieving point.