feeling sad

I had my miscarriage almost 6 weeks ago now.  I am feeling so sad right now.... I should be able to feel the baby move now, and I can't get my mind off of it.... 

I had 2 blighted ovums before this, and I did ok getting over that, but I am really struggling with this, having seen the baby twice on US and everything was ok, then suddenly.... dead.   UUUGGHH...  I'm angry too!

Anyway... thanks to anyone who listened.  I needed to 'talk'.

Blessings to all,
Linda

I am sorry you are going through this. It is normal to be sad and angry. Try to do something nice for yourself. Curl up in the blankets and read a good book. Do you have someone you can lean on and cry with?

I'm so sorry Linda. My heart hurts for you. I am going through an abnormal early pregnancy now and am dreading the final outcome :(

I'm sorry Linda...It's normal what you're going through.  Let yourself grieve...which means being sad, being angry and so much more.  A hard but necessary rollercoaster.

If there's anything I can to do help - let me know.  I'm a pm away.

[[HUGS]]

Prayers to you I understand how you feel I have been through a miscarriage and even years down the road you will think of it. Just know you are not alone and never give up. My sister had 6 miscarriages that includes a bilighted ovum she now has a healthy 8 month old.

I'm so sorry Linda that you had to go through that!  I hope you let yourself have a good cry over the loss of your baby!  I also hope the next time around, you will have a very healthy 40 week pregnancy!  Let yourself be angry and grieve your baby and ask God for the strength to get past it!  Big hugs!

Kerri

Thanks everyone for the kind thoughts and words!    I really appreciate them.

I'm sorry love.....I totally feel you brings tears to my eyes.Its hard.I would only have six weeks to go and my baby girls are gone.Your strong its hard to go on but you will find the strength.Everyone keeps telling me god has a reason for everything and I keep asking well what was my reason for taking my girls.

Hugs to you from me!

Jennifer, I've thought about you through this, you had it so much harder even!!!

I believe the same... God has a reason, but damnit... I don't know what it is and I don't like it.... and my baby should be abou 22 weeks along now!  (ok... got that off my chest)

My hubby wants to try again... I'm scared, and dred he idea of going through this again.

My one bit of hope, beacon of lights actually are my kids.  I'm blessed wth 2 beautiful healthy kids (4 and 6).  By all rights I shouldn't feel sorry for myself because there are so many wonderful people on this forum who don't have kids.... or can't.  It's for them I feel even worse for.  But... even with that, I'm still struggling. 

It wasn't so bad the first few weeks... but for some reason, I'm feeling worse about it, not better....

THanks for the hugs!  Sending them right back to you!
Blessings to you and your family,
Linda

Hi Linda,

Its so weird that you posted this.  I was 10 weeks pregnant when i miscarried May 4th.  Then had to have a d&c 2 days later.  I was terribly depressed for weeks.  At first i didnt want to try again because I couldnt bear the feeling of having to go through that again.  But more recenty i have really been wanting to try to get pregnant again.  But unfortunetly, for completely irrelevant reasons I have to wait 2 more months to (try to) conceive.  I have stayed away from this site because i just wasnt in the mood to read about everyones wonderful exciting pregnancy.  But tonight i was wondering how some of the moms where doing that i had read about when i was pregnant and frequenting this site and i came here and saw your post.  I (like you) have 2 kids ages 6 & 4 as well!  I know we should feel lucky.  We are truely blessed for what we have.  But I still cant help but think about what my pregnancy would be like if I hadnt miscarried (i still blame myself).  I even bought a bunch of materninty clothes that i wont be wearing anytime soon.  Even though 6-7 weeks have passed and some days are easier than others, theres still those days when we'll think about what might have been.   

Hang in there girl.  Youre not alone.  Sending hugs your way!!