Weight Gain - Its going to happen.

I am totally guilty of posting about weight gain so these reality checks from you ladies is sooo welcome!  I NEED to hear this because in my real life, I don't know anyone who has had gastric bypass where I live, and ESPECIALLY not one who is pregnant.  I am totally alone in this journey, but for this message board.  It is just really freaky when you are almost 5 years out like me and JUST dealt with that REBOUND gain even BEFORE getting pregnant and in my case never making it to goal.  But THIS weight is for my son, and I want him to be healthy as possible.  I picture a little precious baby looking at me like, "Mama I am hungry", would I deprive him of nutrition for my own vanity? HECK NO.  My husband also gets on me about dehydration, which is my REAL struggle at this point.  He does the "Mama I am thirsty" to me and I MAKE myself drink whether I get nauseated or not....but THANK you ladies for all sharing your gains, losses, emotions, and support!!  We just have to put baby first right now....