Oh, the rude things people say!!!

trouble256
on 3/29/11 11:37 am - Athens, AL
Honestly, I dont remember what people said to me, I was so in aww, of actually being pregnant I guess it didnt get to me...

But now that you mention it....you have better self control than me. Had some hostess said that I would probably have had her job. I know...a little extreme but this pregnancy things seem to be getting on my nerves a little more.

You are beautiful, screw what folks say!
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boomsheeka01
on 3/29/11 11:57 am - Killeen, TX
Yeah some folks like sticking their foot in their mouths!!!.....but as for me I would take those rude comments any time right now! As long as I had a baby growing in me.....LOL I'm just so desperate!!!   :)
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on 3/29/11 12:00 pm - Makawao, HI
What a **tch...  I was asked my one of my co-workers if I had gained all the weight back I lost since having surgery.  I was like, NO I've actually lost more weight since becoming pregnant. 

Some people just don't think. 
pirate_mommy
on 3/29/11 12:48 pm
Last week when someone commented on my 28 week bump and how large I was, I said, "I'm not pregnant. It's a tumor." and they shut up really fast. I'm totally using it again.



Nikki M.
on 3/29/11 1:01 pm
You are beautiful and have the cutest bump ever! I hope you hear a lot of comments about how stinking cute you look with you belly!
Some people have no tact or social skills. I've never been pregnant, but I experienced a super rude comment today too and want to join in ;)
I have to appear in court about once per week for my job. I arrived today trying to look nice. Two coworkers of mine were sitting together and I walked up to them. One of my coworkers complimented me on how nice I look and said "don't you think she looks nice?" to my other coworker. That co-worker then said "you're going to need breast implants when you're done losing weight, aren't you?" How freaking rude can you be! I said something like, "well I've lost 100 pounds, you should see my butt" or something like that and walked away. The coworker that made the nice comment looked kind of stunned. I walked away and sat far away. A few minutes later the coworker that made the comment walked over to me and sat down. I said "are you here to make more rude comments about me?" in a sort of playful way. She apologized and then proceeded to tell me about what sucks in her life. Sigh. I am getting so self conscience about the way I look! I have a group of coworkers who were telling me I need to get a push up bra the other day too. Leave it to a bunch of women to analyze me! Ug!

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Hollywog
on 3/30/11 3:42 am
Good for you for putting her in her place.  Getting that filter installed on your mouth can be a *****I hope the one you installed for her sticks around for a bit. 

Don't beat yourself up too much on how you're sagging and looking right now.  Just keep bear in mind that you can eventually have surgeries to fix what needs fixing...and even if you don't...you're in a much healthier place than you were pre-WLS.  You'll be a healthier mama someday too.  Stupid people like your co-worker can't have surgery to fix their stupidity.  Maybe we should show these people some sympathy?

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Lexa321
on 3/29/11 9:30 pm - weston, FL
"was it planned"
Modest Vixen
on 3/30/11 2:32 am - Surprise, AZ
Oh yeah I get that one. My step dad (technically not anymore but grew up with him) tells me....Sure it was planned, you planned for Jake not to pull out in time. Ugh, can you be anymore of a disgusting pig please?

I get "Just PLEASE stop after this one, my GOD" all the time. I get pissed and explain 1st, wasn't planned but damn it I am embracing it and second Eff off!  lol

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Hollywog
on 3/30/11 3:43 am
How about just telling people to MYOFB!

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Lexa321
on 3/30/11 7:13 am - weston, FL
i now ask them if they themselves were planned
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