Filthy Friday

I guess Chelle is a little busy today.  OK... what's your gripe (or something that rhymes with witch) today?

Mine is my fluctuating cycle.  OY!  As most of you know, I got a BFN yesterday.  That is because I actually ovulated 2 days earlier than expected this cycle.  Ever since my MC in December I've been fluctuating a little more than before.  OY!  So we are now working with what we've got.  This cycle is the last time that we're trying on our own before going to a fertility specialist.  Now if we were a straight couple, we'd just be DTD every day.  However, given that we're not, we need to "get the goods" from our donor.  So... we're giving it our ALL this cycle.  My ovulation fluctuates between days 14-18.  Ya... a lot I know!  So we're just going to use multiple donors (including our super sperm guy) and we'll be inseminating for 8 days!    Jill is finding more donors for us (already got 1 more lined up) and she said the funniest thing last night... She said "we're just going to load you up with *the stuff* it'll be awesome!"  hahahahahaha!

Last chance on our own and we are determined!!!

you guys crack me up... not much to rant about today... my belly hurts.... i ate to much stupid baked ziti

LOL. Maryn I am hoping for a BFP from you ASAP....i know how badly you want it.
I spent the day arguing with my daughter's school on the phone. They have decided she needs to leave. YEAH. This is the 3rd school in 7 years she has been asked to leave. She has a horrible mean streak and mixed with her disability could aparrently give 2 sh*ts if she upsets her entire class and teaching staff....every day. We have a meeting in a few days to discuss our options. So far this year she has 1. kicked her teacher in the ankle while the poor woman was wearing a cast . 2 screams horrid things are her classmates and makes fun of their disabilities. 3 tried to hurt the class pet.... Hello, she has a disabiltiy too, I have never condoned this behavior and I feel like they are judging me for being a bad parent.
Oh the kicker, today the teacher called and said she says when her new brother or sister comes, she will set it on fire and throw it out the window. Does not seem to understand why this behavior is NOT ok, despite all the specialist working with her.
Sigh. I am pretty close to committing some serious child abuse.
How is everyone feeling this week? Today is an otherwise beautiful day :)

UGH!  No fun!  I'm sorry Chelle.  Sounds like it's really frustrating and you are a saint of mothers!  Keep breathing and no child abuse, please! (i know u were kidding.)  Hopefully your daughter's specialist can help with a new game plan.  Wishing you the best.

Oh... i'm SUPER happy to see ur in wk 13 now!

Thanks so much Maryn. I definitely needed some kind words today :)

I hope you get a BFP soon. My gripe of the day is over my stupid baby daddy. He texted me yesterday calling me a B**** for filing out the child support. Hes mad that I decided to fill out the papers. Hes claiming I didnt try and work out something with him first before filling out the papers. He thinks I just made up my mind and was already going to fill them out. Truthfully I tried to work something out with him. He asked her first week home what she needed and I told him the only thing she needed at the time was formula. He said ok and that he was going to get it and send it to her. I waited and waited even texted him to ask about it and nothing. Never got the formula never got a response about the formula. Yet he can go by an IPAD. After not getting the formula I decided to fill out the papers since I figured that was the only way I would get him to take care of Hazel. Hes also mad at me bacause I moved. I told him when I first found out I was pregnant I would have to move. So it wasnt like it was a suprise when I actually did it. I guess he thought Ided take him up on his offer of paying my rent and bills. He says he makes enough to do that and take care of himself. I told him if I cant trust you to buy her formula then I'm not going to trust that you are going to pay my rent then me and Hazel would end up on the street. We have a negotiation date, but hes saying he dosnt want to do negotiation. He even asked me to stop the child support process. I told him that will never happen. He just frustraites me. My daughter is the only good thing that came between us.

Hi...I have been through the child support process. Hold your ground, and have the money taken directly out of his paycheck. They will send you a debit card for the payments. That way everything is kept on file and he can't "forget" to make a payment. Good luck, keep fighting for your little girl.

I totally agree w/chelle.  Don't let up on the child support process.  He's unreliable and this isn't about you... it's about Hazel.  She has needs too and he's got some responsiblities here.  Trade in the darn iPad for some formula, dood!

Thank you guys. I told him it shouldnt matter how mad you are at me that it should be about Hazel. Its like he dosent care .

The powers the child support unit has is pretty strong. A few years ago my ex was behind a few small payments in arrears that I didn't even know about. One day he called me up from the bank screaming that they put a freeze on his checking acct and the $87.00 he owed me for 2 years had to be paid first before they took the freeze off. He was begging me to talk to the bank manager to straighten it out. I didn't even know they were going to do that....but gotta admit, it was one of my finest moments :) Karma