Filthy Friday!!!!

OMGod!!!  Ya... that was horrible!  Who does that?!  I know what you mean about retirement communities.  I used to live in Chandler right next to Sun Lakes.  My folks live in Sun Lakes and when we go visit them I have to get an ear full of the old fart crap around there.  UGH! 

Oh man see I think Sun Lakes is a little better than Sun City, but both have its issues. Sun City/Surprise we have the crazy traffic/grand ave and I swear EVERY trip to the store I almost get clipped by someone that shouldn't be driving anymore! I have gotten used to the comments about my kids needing jackets, or whatever but this was the worst I have had happen so far. I was so mad my DH had to keep telling me to stay in car because I wanted to go back in and tell her something lol

Ok, this isn't that big of a deal or anything but I would just like to say.......I am SICK of this F'N SNOW!!!  I am so ready to move.  I can not stand it anymore.  It's been snowing all day and isn't supposed to stop until this evening.  Supposed to get 6-10 inches on top of what we already have.  I have had enough.  Fiance is saying that we will probably be moving in September if we can get the visitation stuff with his 2 kids worked out, which brings me to my major rant of today.

My daughter's father is basically a deadbeat.  Doesn't pay his child support, barely calls to see how she is doing.  But I am still expected to send her to see him and I do even though he is required to pay half of the cost but does he, NO.  I do or my parents help out.  Well this summer, he will be required to pay the entire cost of her plane ticket and the unaccompanied minor fee and if he doesn't, she's not going.  I am sick of picking up the cost, it's not fair.  But then there is my fiance, who pays his child support every week and still doesn't get to even speak to his children on the phone.  His ex-wife will not answer the phone.  He leaves a measage with the phone number but they will not call back.  He's not even sure if they get any of the cards or gifts he sends them.  He has not seen his son in 2 years even though they had an agreement that she was to send them down to South Carolina, but then she refused.  When we moved back up her, his daughter was in the hospital with an eye issue so we went to see her in the hospital because his ex couldn't keep him from coming there.  When we were in the hospital with his daughter we found out that his ex has a new boyfriend (probably the 6th that she has moved into her parent's house with the kids in the last couple of years) and is pregnant by him.  Don't really care about that but she is trying to basically have the new boyfriend be my fiance's kid's father.  The boyfriend kept trying to pick a fight in the hospital, calling my fiance's kids, his.  It was rediculous.  We are just saving money so that he can get a lawyer and take her back to court.  I just feel so bad for him because he just wants to see them and have a relationship with them and she refuses to let him.  I am hoping that this gets worked out.

Oh Cass... I'm sorry!  Sounds like you too have the worse of it with both of your ex's.  it's a good thing that the kids have you in their lives.  **hugs**

I had pubic symphisis when I was pregnant. After I had Callen in December it went away. Well two weeks ago it came back. I have been to see the doctors and they have basically told me there is no help for it. Stop doing what hurts (which is walking) take NSAIDS (great advice, thanks). I asked if it would get better and he said 'Well, you can always hope'. Apparently if it shows up after pregnancy, it quite often continues to get worse. Great. Now I can worry about going on disablity.
As an aside, I eat too much crap and exercise like a mad woman to keep the weight down. And I love exercise. So much for that.
Callen is worth it though.

Hmm? Well, my nipples ache, i've got heartburn from hell, insomnia, diarhea and i've lost like 6 or 7 pounds this week. Maybe BFP? I'll test Monday. This has been the longest friggin' 2 weeks of my life!

On a lighter note i've been feeling very frisky the last couple of days (after saying last week I was sick of sex) and it's nice to get back to freakin' in the sheets for the fun of it. Course I did have to keep my arms down last night since my deodorant quit working. LOL!

Life is good!

lmfaoo about the deodorant, hope your pee stick is positive!!

You ladies made me laugh, thank you!

I am so tired of being sick and tired! UGH! I am soooo thankful to be pregnant, but I am so sick of puking!

My mother in law currently lives with us (bad enough lol) and when I got home from work today I was sooo sick. She proceeds to follow me to my room where I am puking in the trash can and all she can do is talk about her day. I AM PUKING, LEAVE ME ALONE! 

I wish my husband did not have to work so late tonight. UGH so frustrated, who the hell wants to be in a room with someone puking and then not even ask if they are ok or leave the room?

 After being so nauseous and throwing up for the past day and a half, I felt halfway human enough to work today.  I had to listen to a meeting that happened prior to my shift and they were giving away awards.  They gave one to someone for  "signing on early and staying late to take calls, specially when others on the late shift call in sick or can't perform".  That would be me this week.  Tueday I kept signing off to dry heave in my bathroom, worked half of Wednesday until I threw up and was off all day yesterday because I wasn't any better. 

I know they didn't mean it specially at me;  there are a few people on the late shift that always seem to be on vacation, sick, whatever.  But I felt bad.  I'm the only one in my dept from 6:30-8:00pm.  I take phone calls, so if i'm puking or dry heaving, I can't talk.  I know they understand, they have other pregnant staff members, but it sucks because if i'm not here, someone has to pick up my slack.  

My supervisor is trying to get me off this shift because of the pregnancy.  If I go full term, someone will have to work it while I'm on maternity leave.  Also, she's trying to shift me off the phones so I can do just the job I'm technically supposed to have instead of being "double titled".  That can't happen until May, when I complete my college classes for the semester.

I found out today I got into a college program I didn't apply for. I applied for a medical coding certificate program at my local community college.  It is a 1 year program, but since i work full time, I was going to take the program part time, so it would take me 2 years.  There is an associate's degree that allows you to get a coding certificate, but it's a 2 year program, which means it would take me 4 years part time.  Also, I have to let her know asap if i want the spot in the program for this fall.  My tentative due date is October 25th, so if all is well with my pregnancy (i found out i'm 6 weeks 6 days, not 5 weeks), i will have to defer the program for at least a year.  I don't know what i'm going to tell the school.  I don't want to pass up my spot, but i'm so early in my pregnancy I don't think I can make these decisions yet.  I know I want to hope for the best, but I have a few friends that suffered miscarriages in the past year.  I'm nervous I'm going toget my hopes too high too soon.

And the last thing: i found out today I can't bowl while pregnant . I've never heard this before. I workout regularly, and was told to continue that.  My husband wants to go bowling on his spring break next month and I invited a friend of mine.  She works in a OB office, in fact, it's my OBGYN from when I was a teenager.  She told me that the doctor told her I can't bowl due to my equilibrium being thrown off and possibly causing me to fall.  I'm not the most graceful person in the world, I can fall at any time just walking.  So, I can use the elliptical but not bowl....oh well.

I bowled at the begning of my pregnancy i say use a light ball and have fun but check with your doctor as im not a professional