Filthy Friday...whoohoo!!

OK my rant happened yesterday and sent me home wanting to eat a LOT of food, but I didn't... I did have a glass of wine though...  sorry... this is a long one...

I'm 40, TTC (AI'ing in a couple of wks), and we're getting married in 64 days. I also have my mother's genetic issues in my mouth... significant bone loss and I've had numerous teeth removed.  UGH! I'm 40 and I already have 1 partial denture.  Well yesterday I was scheduled to have 3 more teeth removed and the 2nd partial denture.  It's very emotionally hard for me. I mean really... who wants to lose their teeth and wear dentures before you even have a baby?!

So this dental work was totally a timing thing.  I didn't want to have this work done until after I have a baby, but 3 wks ago at my cleaning, the dentist said that it couldn't wait - especially since I already had a MC.  Less infection in my body is ultimately better for the pregnancy.  So we scheduled this work for yesterday so I would have a couple of months to heal before the wedding and a couple of weeks before we AI again (enough time to finish a round of antibiotics.)

Well... i get there yesterday only to find out that A) the front desk chick messed up on the estimate and told me that my cost would be about $200 more than what they told me 3 wks ago (ummmm... NOT!) and then B) the lab made the new partial dentures totally wrong and that we couldn't use them.  OY!  So now they lab has to remake the dentures, and now i have to go back next Tuesday afternoon.

It took everything in me not to scream (really wanted to say something that rhymes with witch) at the dentist and her staff for screwing this up.  Now the timing is rushed on this and oh yeah... I have to miss more work!  I was so upset yesterday.  And I have to have a crappy partial denture for about 5 days which will hurt before the real one with the better material is available.  UGH!

I could swear you are talking about my ex husband LOL

Run down:  He threw me onto the street when I got pregnant with DS #2. Moved his *****I mean girlfriend in three days later with her two kids. Was not there for me the entire pregnancy, his parents were at the delivery and MADE him fly out for the birth. (I had to relocate due to being homeless, I ended up back here in AZ with my mom). He shows up with hickeys all over his neck, and drnk off his ass. Security followed him everywhere, and all of the nurses in the NICU called him names right to his pathetic face. I loved it haha

Well now he and the ***** are married. She had him convert to a different religion so that they could scam the church out of some money. She has cheated on him so many times I have lost count, they shared girlfriends...and now have two little ones together. He hasn't seen, or spoken to his boys with me in over three years. His wife does absolutely nothing so he works, goes to school and collects his GI bill to pay for her kids and now his two with her. Do I see a penny? Nope. He is behind at least 12 grand in support. He makes me sick to my stomach and the fact any woman would want a "man" like him....astounds me!

Sounds like in the long run, though, it's $12K and counting well lost.  Hard as I'm sure things have been for you at times...you & your boys are way better off w/o a deadbeat creep like that influencing anything in their lives or making yours miserable.

It was definitely best thing he ever did for me, kicking me out. I was trapped in my home, couldn't work, school anything. Miserable life I had, I tell ya. Still ****** me off that he doesn't even WANT a life with the boys. They don't miss out, because my husband is the greatest Dad I could have asked for... but still they are great kids, who wouldn't want them in their lives?

I feel your pain here girl, but it's the opposite for us...My husband and his ex have joint custody of the 3 girls- him having primary physical, but their ""uterus donor" (as I call her) acts like she cares about the girls and "wants" to be in their lives yet she moved 5 hours away from us in April and has NOT made 1 single attempt to try to come visit with them. Oh but she has tried to get us on the Dr. Phil show, Steve Wilkos, and Maury of all things! She refuses to get a job and support them, but she sent us an email just yesterday asking what sizes in clothing and shoes they needed because she wanted to help with them and refuses to send us cash so we can spend it on OUR new baby...hmmm imagine that! yet it's been ok for my husband and I to bust our asses for the last 3 years to support them while she never paid a red cent. And was it not just Christmas?? Thanks to my family, the girls got tons of clothes and aren't in need of those things, but she doesn't understand that supporting kids is not just clothing them. My heart hurts for her...and its especially bad since I'm about to have my own bio child...because I could NEVER in a million years think of not seeing my child every day! She lost them to CPS custody twice and she asks what the diff is between us...HMMM I'll never in a million years allow CPS to take my child from me! 

Oh and did I mention she can't wait to have the life she's always wanted in August of this year when she moves to California to live with ehr new husband's family??? This is her Facebook info and she tries to friend request me only after stealing our family portraits...and I got it taken care of but turning her in and Facebook removed MY family pics!

Wow you have my story beat. One of the reasons I cannot stand my sister's BF is because he walked away from his autistic kid. I have a huge problem with anyone who does that, especially to be with a girl they barely know. Sounds like you are better off without him, definitely, but I would still be suing THAT ASS for child support. I really don't understand why women are attracted to men like that. Do they think they aren't next in line for the same sh*t?

Since she knew he was married to me at the time, went after him anyway, and told him to stop calling once I started the diagnosis process for my son's autism....I hope he does screw her over in the end. I don't wish that on his other children but wish there was a way for karma to punish them, and not the kids that didn't ask for such **** head parents.

I have considered taking him to court for back child support, will cost me about $300 to do so. I have also considered terminating his rights so my husband can adopt. Judge already old me I have enough cause/evidence but need the $8000 to file it. Pain in my ass even when he isn't involved I tell ya lol

Rant:  I'm sick of sex!

At first it was awesome but now it's "ARE YOU DONE YET" and "give me a towel and let me elevate my ass for 15 minutes."

Officially, in the 2ww. Please be a BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LOL - If I didn't know better I'd say you had tape recorded my bedroom!

Good luck on the 2ww!

Good luck! I hope you get you BFP!


I'm also sick of sex... I'm 100% convinced that some man invented the "sex to induce labor" myth...

Sure it's fun, but we've been busy every night for over a week and NOTHING.