Sick with Jealousy

 Before I had surgery I had PCOS and everywhere  I looked for 2 years prior to surgery family and friends were getting pregnant and I was so jealous (we had been trying for atleast 4 years). Finally it's my turn!!! I hope all turns out well for you :)

I feel you.  I think that we are entitled to feel this way at one point.  We must get past it though. How I get through it is.  When we are finally posting our bfp there will be someone reading it feeling the same way.  Be happy for her and your friends our time is coming. 

I definitely understand! We tried for 5 yeas before we got pregnant and kept our little one. In the meantime everywhere I looked people were having babies. When one of my friends would get pregnant, I really wanted to be happy for them but just couldn't do it. It's really nice now that we have our little one that I can be really happy for people when they find out they're having a baby. But it was a long road and I totally understand! I am hoping you get pregnant soon!!!

Tina

 I completely understand, I am so jealous of everyone who is pregnant, or just had a baby. I feel bad for you, I hope soon to hear that you will be pregnant too. Please vent away, it helps!

I know how you feel ..

Anyone who has ever struggled with fertility issues can understand where you are right now. After my second mc I literally had homicidal thoughts about this woman in walmart who was pregnant and yelling at a toddler. It was SO bad. I am not a violent person. Then my sixteen year old cousin got pregnant.

Let me tell you... it's a good thing no one could read my thoughts... they were SO bad. I almost don't want to admit to them.

A friend of mine just signed off of facebook indefinately for the same reasons, she lost her baby girl at full-term. It was horrible. It might not be a bad idea to limit yourself from fb and even here (if neccessary****il you are in a better place mentally.

The thing about here, is that we know what you're going through... and how you feel and understand.

Infertility is a ***** in the most horrible ways.

Good luck, Hoping you get your BFP ASAP!!!!

I absolutly understand, 10years of trying and 3 failed fertility treatments later. Especially in the last couple of years when the hubby's brother has had a couple of kids and our friends have had children. I always felt so incomplete.

Thanks everyone for your support.  What a wonderful group here.  I found from another co-worker that the pregnant girl may be containing her excitement out of respect for me, which is so thoughtful of her to do.  I will just keep on keeping on, reading your posts with hope and anticipation for us all!

Robyn,

Has hubby been through all of the tests as well?  It could be that your body is still changing and such... but it could also be a combination.  Keep me updated... and keep in mind that 'making a baby' can be quite fun as well!

Hey Sharon,

Dr looked at his swimmers and said they are good to go!  I miss ya and love ya!  Will let you know next time I am up that way.