Filthy Friday!!!!
Oh dear lord this is going to be a mouthful here...I think this week has me having it up to my ears in BS!!!
First- WHY do I have to keep getting this DAMN cold back? I was sick right after Christmas and it went away quickly, but now- BAM! Sore throat, severe chest congestion, head congestion, and on top of it the liquid runs!!! Really??? UGH!
Second- my grandmother was having some issues trying to go to the bathroom- she's 83 years old and my ENTIRE family walks all over her- and obviously she called everyone at work before I got a phone call. My aunt called and asked me to go to her house and sit with the 85 (I'm exxagerating, but everyone dumps their kids on her and pays her next to nothing to watch them and expects she should be able to handle everything and deal with it without bothering them) kids she babysits on a daily basis. Did I mention that the kids she babysits have parents who both have really decent paying jobs and they COULD afford to pay her a LOT more than what they do??? Anywho, I get to her house, she's frazzled beyond belief...my husband works night shift and was still awake so I asked him to go with me and thank god he did because I was told my cousin was on her way, but she in fact was NOT. My husband stayed with the kids and I drove her to the ER. Our kids were coming home in an hour and a half, so I let my aunt know this. My poor grandmother was straining so hard to go that she was literally having nothing but bloody stool...everyone blamed her for it because she took a few anemas herself. Needless to say, we finally got to the ER and they took her immediately. They checked for an obstruction, but nothing. Although she did have a UTI and they gave her a mag citrate anema. It did the trick and she felt 1000 times better, but she was completely exhausted, shivering, and just in need of going home to rest. I called to report to my aunt and she says tell her if she wants to pick up Mikey he's at Pat's!!! WTF!!!??? Are you serious? They expected her to rush over and get this 3yo kid and take him home and watch him til his parents came- his parents who work for the police department and have TONS of personal time that it would not have killed them to pick up their DAM kid a few hours early. Then, my gram says she doesn't want to be alone. I text my cousin to ask her to sit with my gram cus I had to go home and make dinner (now she is another one who drops her 4yo little girl off at my grams and pays ZERO for her to watch her...yes I said ZERO!!!) Her response is I have to take my bf to a job interview and to the store so I can't!!! Are you flippin kidding me???? And they all acted like this whole thing was my grandmother's fault and she just over reacted!!! I was beyond pissed and right now I refuse to speak to my family here because of their selfishness. They all think she's crazy and needs to go to a home or something, but yet that doesn't stop them from paying her next to pennies to watch their kids and do nothing in return--and did I mention I never ask her to watch my children for this exact reason???? UGH!!!
Third- my hubby and I have a pretty active normal sex life, but since I got preggo I have NO desire to even be touched! And here he is the horny toad on the lane and he never makes me feel guilty about neglecting his needs, but damn it I don't wanna have sex and don't touch me!!! lol poor men!
Ok I think that's it for me LOL I had the week from hell...2 trips to the ER (my middle stepdaughter broke a bone in her foot so we spent Fri in the ER also) and neither time was for me and all the family drama...its beyond irritating to say the least and why not burden me? I'm only 4 weeks away from my due date with my first and only child- who cares if I'm stressed out right?? All because I'm a SAHM so I should be able to jump when someone needs me!!!
Oh and the shaving thing- ya I attempted it myself 2! I got the down there taken care of and said ENOUGH! He can deal with my hairy legs unless he plans on shaving them some time soon!! :) Ahhh thank you for this post I just had to share!!
First- WHY do I have to keep getting this DAMN cold back? I was sick right after Christmas and it went away quickly, but now- BAM! Sore throat, severe chest congestion, head congestion, and on top of it the liquid runs!!! Really??? UGH!
Second- my grandmother was having some issues trying to go to the bathroom- she's 83 years old and my ENTIRE family walks all over her- and obviously she called everyone at work before I got a phone call. My aunt called and asked me to go to her house and sit with the 85 (I'm exxagerating, but everyone dumps their kids on her and pays her next to nothing to watch them and expects she should be able to handle everything and deal with it without bothering them) kids she babysits on a daily basis. Did I mention that the kids she babysits have parents who both have really decent paying jobs and they COULD afford to pay her a LOT more than what they do??? Anywho, I get to her house, she's frazzled beyond belief...my husband works night shift and was still awake so I asked him to go with me and thank god he did because I was told my cousin was on her way, but she in fact was NOT. My husband stayed with the kids and I drove her to the ER. Our kids were coming home in an hour and a half, so I let my aunt know this. My poor grandmother was straining so hard to go that she was literally having nothing but bloody stool...everyone blamed her for it because she took a few anemas herself. Needless to say, we finally got to the ER and they took her immediately. They checked for an obstruction, but nothing. Although she did have a UTI and they gave her a mag citrate anema. It did the trick and she felt 1000 times better, but she was completely exhausted, shivering, and just in need of going home to rest. I called to report to my aunt and she says tell her if she wants to pick up Mikey he's at Pat's!!! WTF!!!??? Are you serious? They expected her to rush over and get this 3yo kid and take him home and watch him til his parents came- his parents who work for the police department and have TONS of personal time that it would not have killed them to pick up their DAM kid a few hours early. Then, my gram says she doesn't want to be alone. I text my cousin to ask her to sit with my gram cus I had to go home and make dinner (now she is another one who drops her 4yo little girl off at my grams and pays ZERO for her to watch her...yes I said ZERO!!!) Her response is I have to take my bf to a job interview and to the store so I can't!!! Are you flippin kidding me???? And they all acted like this whole thing was my grandmother's fault and she just over reacted!!! I was beyond pissed and right now I refuse to speak to my family here because of their selfishness. They all think she's crazy and needs to go to a home or something, but yet that doesn't stop them from paying her next to pennies to watch their kids and do nothing in return--and did I mention I never ask her to watch my children for this exact reason???? UGH!!!
Third- my hubby and I have a pretty active normal sex life, but since I got preggo I have NO desire to even be touched! And here he is the horny toad on the lane and he never makes me feel guilty about neglecting his needs, but damn it I don't wanna have sex and don't touch me!!! lol poor men!
Ok I think that's it for me LOL I had the week from hell...2 trips to the ER (my middle stepdaughter broke a bone in her foot so we spent Fri in the ER also) and neither time was for me and all the family drama...its beyond irritating to say the least and why not burden me? I'm only 4 weeks away from my due date with my first and only child- who cares if I'm stressed out right?? All because I'm a SAHM so I should be able to jump when someone needs me!!!
Oh and the shaving thing- ya I attempted it myself 2! I got the down there taken care of and said ENOUGH! He can deal with my hairy legs unless he plans on shaving them some time soon!! :) Ahhh thank you for this post I just had to share!!
OMG, I finally shaved too!!! (so what if it was only because I had an OB appointment, lol)
So, my rant of the week has to do with the idea that RNY patients are considered "untouchables." I've heard about this, but I experienced it for the first time yesterday. The OB office I go to has two docs...since my son was born, I've chosen to go to the one that seems gentler with my lady parts and has overall better bedside manner. Well, yesterday I had to see the other doctor. I explained to him the horrible constipation I was having and some other issues and he basically looked at me and said, "maybe you should talk to your bariatric surgeon about that, because I just don't know..." That is something I know the other doctor would never do...he even offered to call my bari-surgeon before.
It just infuriates me that doctors have become so siloed off in their specialties and refuse to offer true coordinated care (it's just a stinkin' phone call!). My bariatric surgeon, while wonderful, doesn't know enough about obstetrics to feel comfortable giving me direction, and vice versa with my OB. I know they're trying to avoid malpractice and the like, but it's just really annoying and I'm tired of having to pay extra co-pays to go back and forth all the time.
So, my rant of the week has to do with the idea that RNY patients are considered "untouchables." I've heard about this, but I experienced it for the first time yesterday. The OB office I go to has two docs...since my son was born, I've chosen to go to the one that seems gentler with my lady parts and has overall better bedside manner. Well, yesterday I had to see the other doctor. I explained to him the horrible constipation I was having and some other issues and he basically looked at me and said, "maybe you should talk to your bariatric surgeon about that, because I just don't know..." That is something I know the other doctor would never do...he even offered to call my bari-surgeon before.
It just infuriates me that doctors have become so siloed off in their specialties and refuse to offer true coordinated care (it's just a stinkin' phone call!). My bariatric surgeon, while wonderful, doesn't know enough about obstetrics to feel comfortable giving me direction, and vice versa with my OB. I know they're trying to avoid malpractice and the like, but it's just really annoying and I'm tired of having to pay extra co-pays to go back and forth all the time.
Uhg I have had a horrible week!
Broke up with my baby daddy over the dumbest thing.
I havent had sex since sunday.
I hate the world. I can't wait for this day to be over :)
Gonna go home and try to hear my beans heart beat, so far all I can hear is my food digesting
and my heartbeat :(
Broke up with my baby daddy over the dumbest thing.
I havent had sex since sunday.
I hate the world. I can't wait for this day to be over :)
Gonna go home and try to hear my beans heart beat, so far all I can hear is my food digesting
and my heartbeat :(
HW:333 SW:309 (7/14/09) CW:135
Plastics In MEXICO on 09/07/2015.
Arm lift/ Thigh lift / breast lift w/ implants/ lower body lift
Apparently instead of celebrating the Chinese Year of the Rabbit, I celebrated the day of the jackass on Thursday. I would like my baby's father to GROW UP, preferably by my delivery date. It ain't looking promising. I won't get into the specifics, but long story short I got woken up at 4 a.m. for an "emergency" that was completely avoidable, and not really my responsibility. I am so tired of being patient with a supposedly grown man. My mother is driving me crazy with the details of my family/friends shower on Sunday. Like calling me every hour...for every little thing. Don't get me wrong I'm greatful (I had work shower the other day that was wonderful), however my hormones are barely at bay, and my nerves are getting frazzeled. I'm a little worried that I'll have this baby before I make it my birthing class, I tried to get into an earlier class and they were all booked. Trying to not go batty over here.
Its been a long week i like haveing this section to be able to rant about anything. well im sick of being pregnant. i am literly ready to meet my little girl now. im sick of all the pressure going on down below and all the braxton hicks or maybe there actual contrations idk. i go meet my new doctor that i tried to meet in december but she wouldnt take me b/c of the medicade type i had and we had decided that delivering and going to the doctors at my moms hospital wasnt working out. im hoping that the doctor will give me good news and be able to give me a guestamation of when shell be comming out. im just ready for this part to be over. i want her in my arms. well i feel a little better have a great weekend everyone.
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