Yippee... normal again!
I never thought I would ever say this... but yay... AF arrived yesterday! LOL... 32 days after I had a MC. Finally back on track. OB says we can AI again after 1 full cycle. So that means that we'll be AI'ing in early March. So very happy! I use the basal temp method of predicting my O. So 7am daily temp taking is back on. I did it for almost 5 mos before we AI'd last time.
So we are getting married on 4/23... big yay! And provided the sticky baby dust does its thing in early March... it will be a shotgun lesbian wedding! hahahahahaha. Here's my concern: When I got pg in Nov we actually told a lot of our friends. Then when I MC'd, I had to send that dreaded email out to everyone. UGH. We're not going to do that again. We're only telling my bestie, Jill's bestie (my fiance) and my parents. But here's the thing... if I'm pg at our wedding, I will not be drinking any wine. And all of my friends know I LOVE me some wine! So.... looks like all of our close friends and family will easily be able to figure it out. I might be 9wks pg at my wedding...or possibly 5 wks pg... depending on the stickiness of course.
OY! I guess we'll cross that path when we do. For now, we're just happy to be back on track!
So we are getting married on 4/23... big yay! And provided the sticky baby dust does its thing in early March... it will be a shotgun lesbian wedding! hahahahahaha. Here's my concern: When I got pg in Nov we actually told a lot of our friends. Then when I MC'd, I had to send that dreaded email out to everyone. UGH. We're not going to do that again. We're only telling my bestie, Jill's bestie (my fiance) and my parents. But here's the thing... if I'm pg at our wedding, I will not be drinking any wine. And all of my friends know I LOVE me some wine! So.... looks like all of our close friends and family will easily be able to figure it out. I might be 9wks pg at my wedding...or possibly 5 wks pg... depending on the stickiness of course.
OY! I guess we'll cross that path when we do. For now, we're just happy to be back on track!
YAY!!! Crossing my fingers for your sticky bean! Also sending sticky baby dust!!! Maybe they'll realize/remember that you're trying and not think twice about the fact that you aren't drinking! OR you could get some juice or sparkling juice and put it in a wine glass so it isn't as obvious! Good luck!
Yay-- Happy you are back on track! I will be sending you many sticky baby vibes for your AI!
And congrats on your upcoming wedding!
I agree with Stephanie, if you have conceived by then and can't drink alcohol, your guests will likely just assume you aren't drinking b/c you are TTC.
Good luck & keep us posted!
-V
And congrats on your upcoming wedding!
I agree with Stephanie, if you have conceived by then and can't drink alcohol, your guests will likely just assume you aren't drinking b/c you are TTC.
Good luck & keep us posted!
-V
I love my DS!
5'7'' SW-267, CW-155
Mom to 2 boys- age 6 & 4
TTC baby #3 since Oct. 2010
5'7'' SW-267, CW-155
Mom to 2 boys- age 6 & 4
TTC baby #3 since Oct. 2010
Good luck next month then! That's great news and congrats on the approaching wedding.
I wouldn't worry too much about people finding out and here's why... I have had 2 m/c's the secong was at 15 weeks (in the "safe zone"). That being said, here's my take. You are going to be pretty upset if you loose another baby... and people will find out. Now I'm not saying that having to tell people doesn't suck... it does... but I guess I just figure they're gonna find out that you were preggers anyways. We still told people when I got pregnant the 3rd time. Knowing full well that it might not work. I figured i would be such a mess that everyone would know...
Just my take on it.... but here's hoping that you don't have to worry about that ever again. :)
I wouldn't worry too much about people finding out and here's why... I have had 2 m/c's the secong was at 15 weeks (in the "safe zone"). That being said, here's my take. You are going to be pretty upset if you loose another baby... and people will find out. Now I'm not saying that having to tell people doesn't suck... it does... but I guess I just figure they're gonna find out that you were preggers anyways. We still told people when I got pregnant the 3rd time. Knowing full well that it might not work. I figured i would be such a mess that everyone would know...
Just my take on it.... but here's hoping that you don't have to worry about that ever again. :)
~Victoria
Congratualtions on your upcoming wedding! Maybe you can put some diet ginger ale in a wineglas and say it's champagne? Dunno, not an expert on that stuff. Or maybe carry the same wineglass around the whole time and take little sips from it? Might get flaming for that, but according to research, an occasional glass of red wine while pregnant is ok.
Anyway, you have a lot to look foward to! Glad AF came and you can put some of that behind you. Best wishes to you and Jill :)
Anyway, you have a lot to look foward to! Glad AF came and you can put some of that behind you. Best wishes to you and Jill :)
Thanks, Michelle! I already have a bunch of Martinelli's for the non-boozers. There will actually be about a dozen WLS'ers at the wedding. Some of them do drink though. But it's all good. I'll work it out. And if people ask us... my bestie said I should just lie and say that since a 1/2 glass of wine gets me looped (thanks to Penelope Pouch) that I decided I didn't want to be a drunk/sober/drunk/sober girl at my wedding. She's good! That's why she's my maid of honor! tee hee.
Here's hoping that I DO have this problem at my wedding!
Here's hoping that I DO have this problem at my wedding!
