MC

Trish W.
on 12/25/10 12:10 pm

Sending thoughts, prayers, & hugs your way !!! So sorry for your loss.

jackie j
on 12/25/10 12:27 pm - Glenmoore, PA

Very sorry for your loss Melinda, this is a very trying time for you and I will pray for strength for you. Hang in there Hon, treat yourself gently.

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MusicMaryn
on 12/25/10 2:50 pm - San Jose, CA

RNY on 08/27/09

Melinda,

I am so sorry that you are going through this. I just found out about my MC on Monday (6 days ago.) It sucks ass big time. It is just today starting to physically slow down. But emotionally it does get better. I know... not what we wanted for Christmas at all. But my DW said it so beautifully the night we found out... She said that if I were pregnant with our child I would still be pregnant. So our child has not yet come into our lives. That beautiful thought resonated deeply with me and has been the shining light in this dark time for me. Knowing that our child is going to come into our lives soon has been very comforting.

During this next week, be gentle with yourself. I slept a lot and... well... slept a lot. MC does physically take a lot out of you. Please feel free to PM me if you'd like to talk.

Prayers for you and your DH.

~Maryn

Our little miracle baby boy is on his way!

Hollywog
on 12/25/10 6:39 pm

RNY on 07/07/06

I'm sorry about your MC...not that any time of year is a good time for one...but over the holdays and on vacation are doubly bad.

Some may disagree with me...but I say go ahead and eat your way through those first few days...but then get back on track and take care of yourself.

I've btdt w/the miscarriages. If there's anything I can help w/or you just need someone to talk to, please PM me.

[[hugs]]

Holly
January 2008,
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Mom to Khaled

Just-Jenn
on 12/25/10 8:45 pm - Midstate Region, PA

RNY on 03/01/06

I am very sorry about your m/c. It definately is a time when you should take care of you...lots of us on the board have endured the same heart break....so if you need to talk about it pop back in. I hope u can begin your recovery soon.

Proud Mom to Allen (20), Christa (14), Sophie (2), Stella (1). and an angel 5/07

cass2399
on 12/25/10 9:20 pm - Sabattus, ME

RNY on 10/13/09

I'm so sorry for your loss!!

tonirc
on 12/25/10 11:27 pm - KY

No one should have to go through this or any other type of loss around the holidays. It sucks and so unfair!! Im sorry for ur loss, take comfort knowing you are not alone. Eat what you want, screw everything else right now. You can get back on track some other day after the shock and pain is eases.