Totaly irritatated

I am useualy a preaty calm person, but it seems as of lately every little thing irritates the hell out of me. High pitched noises smells you name it it probaly irritates me in some way. I dont know whats wrong with me or if this is even normal. Im in the process of moving back home which is not something I particurly want to do since my moms bf lives with her and he realy irritates me and it seems he irritates me even more now than ever before. I literly would like to stab him in order to get rid of him, but I know thats not feasable. It also seems since being back in my moms house Im more stressed out. I cant please everyone and Im the type of person that if I dont like you I'm not going out of my way to make u belive I like you theres no need to be fake about it. I'm just afraide my moms going to end up kicking me out if I dont change but I dont know whats wrong with me and I just cant controll my feelings as I used to. Is this normal or is there something wrong with me and Im just not normal. Also I have alot of stress outside of the house as well just trying to find a doctor out here since the particular plan of medicade im on is not takin by the doctors out here. So at the rate we are going im going to have some stranger doctor delivering my baby and that really puts me on edge. If anyone can tell me why am I so irritated lately and if its normal or not it would be greatly apprciated.

it's totally the hormones - it will get better!

Hey Honey-
It sounds like hormones. Put the knife down and take a deep breath...just a few more weeks. Start calling around and get yourself a new dr. Being proactive about that will make you feel better. Being pregnant makes us hormonal, living in uncertainty makes it even worse. Go back to your family doctor if things get worse so you can ask about medicine temporarily.

Good luck! We're in the home stretch!

Third trimester hormones... totally normal... just keep telling yourself "this too shall pass..." 

Sounds like you have a lot going on with the move too, the stress can totally make you more irritable.

((hugs))
Hang in there. Have you ever tried yoga or meditation? Or even just taking a few moments to yourself to just be calm, take some deep breaths and be centered. It really does help.

Since it is close to the end of the month you should call up the number on your medicaid card, and you can switch plans. It should be effective at the First of the month. Just call the doctors office you plan on going to and ask them which plan they take. It is a lot easier to to do that way.

As far as the hormones, I am right there with you! every time my husband sits at his computer, the constant clicking of the mouse really, really, irritates me!!! I told him he needs to not be so loud!I have almost grabbed my laptop to throw at him! Just seeing him sitting on the computer or playing with his iPhone really makes me mad. I thought it had a lot to do with the fact that he has been unemployed for the past year and that I am sick of him being useless when it comes to supporting his family. I am the only bread maker and it is getting stressful because I know I have to take time off when the baby gets here.

thanks ladies. ive tried to change my medicaid plan but i have to wait til my adress is changed in there system since then ill be in a different county. since i wasnt living in harries county i cant switch over to the medic aid i need til it shows in there system that i actully live in harris county. right now im going to my moms hospital since its a county hospital and they take any form of medicade and going to their pregnancy clinic just so i have some type of continued prenatal care while we try and figure things out. im ready for my hormones to go back to normal so i can feel noramal again. once again ladies thanks for all yalls kind words.

Stress causes irritability big time...and you've got big time stress going on in your life.

Try to do what you can to reduce the stresses in your life, and hopefully the irritability will ease somewhat (though like the others have said, some of it is hormonal, so will be with you for a bit).

Obviously you can't get rid of all of the stress inducers, but remind yourself that your move back home is temporary.  Work out with your mom the chores or bills or whatever that you are splitting - so you know what you need to do and are more comfortable that you're not a burden (because that would be a big stress inducer to me...not because I'm saying you're a burden.  Of course the first thing I'd have to do - even before that - is wrap my mind around the fact that I had to live with my mother again *shudder* God forbid...but I have 'mother issues' that you may not have). 

Create your own 'haven' in your bedroom if you can - prepare the baby's area, arrange your stuff, if you have your own TV/computer etc - arrange that - into an area you're comfortable spending time in...because the next thing I'd say is avoid the bf as much as possible.  Don't put your mom in the middle of the two of you, because that would obviously create more stress that you don't want/need...not to mention it wouldn't be fair to your mom. Unless this guy treats your mom bad (physically/mentally abusive, doesn't help with household expensesr...whatever) then your mom's old enough to make her own decision on whom she sees...and you just have to accept it. 

I assume the weather's still OK there in TX...so you can always spend time avoiding the bf - and conflict and stress - by going for a walk; going to a mall and window shopping; going to the library; hanging out with friends...use your imagination. 

If it helps, make a list of goals for your future (ie what you plan on doing once the baby's here, how/when you plan on getting back out on your own, where to bury mom's bf after you stab him...*oops - never mind that one* LOL.

Good luck.  Have a merry Christmas...and a happy, healthy and safe New Year as you welcome your little one in a few weeks.