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My daughter is 11 and my son just turned 4 a few weeks ago and every once in a while I get the urge to have another. I think that for me its because both of my children were not planned. We were young and sex crazy when we had her and my son was a "home from deployment" baby. I love both of my children to death and Im pretty sure that he would not take them back either but when I was pregnant there was no real excitement from him. I was more like an obligation that was coming. I am now divorced and I think that if I ever found my soul mate I would love to have a baby that was planned and where he was actually excited about, I guess I feel like I was robbed of that. For now I just offer to babysit friends kids and as soon as they get fussy, spit up or poop all up their back I come back to my senses. I think that its because they grow up so fast that we get sad, just try to cherish every moment, take lots of pictures and build tons of memories :)

Thanks for replying. I remember why I dont ever post here because no one ever responds to me. I wont be posting again.

I'm not sure what your post was, it was deleted by the time I got on here.  I am sorry no one responds to you.  I try to support people because I know how scary it can be.  I have had 3 boys after surgery and had gone through many things.  So, I really do try to help.  I usually have someone remind me how stupid I am but that is okay.  I don't mind.  But if there is anything I can do, let me know.  I will talk and post to you.  God bless!  Toni

No one ever replies to me here, either - it's very discouraging. I posted sonogram pics and asked questions about gift registries and what I would need. You might have better luck posting on the main board.

I don't even know if I'll be posting pics of my baby when she's born - on here, anyway. Not sure what I've done to people, but it's not helping anything, that's for sure.

I use to post here alot but even then I didnt get much response. I stopped posting and figured eh why not pst again with my question. Just not worth it. But you can PM me for advice if you need any I have two post op.

Thanks :)

pssst. I lurk here. :D

Can't wait to see pictures of your mini you.

Thanks, sweetie pie!! I can't wait to see her, period :) Less than 100 days to go!

I'm sorry. When I first started posting, I only got a few replies. I guess the more active you are on the more, the more people will feel comfortable repying. I see it that way on The Bump, too. Also, I'm pretty sure the "views" section in this thread is messed up, there is NO WAY thousands of people looked at your post and ignored it. This board is not THAT active. It does do that occasionally, though. I'm sorry you are upset. Sometimes people here are just going through their own issues, and don't really know how to respond to a post if they have nothing encouraging to say or any advice to give.  But I do see that on other sites, too.