Totally losing my hope

If you ever are able to switch Medical Insurance providers Kaiser Permanente is the only insurance provider I know who covers IVF if medically necessary/you have unexplained infertility.

~~Gina

hi again Gina...

my husband's employer does offer Kaiser..but I believe that for employees who live in VA or the NE... I live in FL near the Orlando area...

Thank for the info. :-)

1. find a new dr

2. i understand your frustration- however im a little offened by your statement "It just seems so unfair how some women can get pregnant so easily and those are the ones that throw and abandon their babies in the trash.....  Those of us *****ally want them can't get them...."

-i got pregnant easy... both times... i wanted my children.. no- people who get pregant easy dont throw thier kids into the trash 

3. i hope your dream comes true, really i do...

Thanks for your post..I apogize for my comment I believe I wasn't specific enough. I meant of those that get pregnant easy there is a percentage that do get pregnant easy and those are the ones that you hear on the news about neglect, abandonment even murder them. That is what I meant. I am not ignorant to think that every woman who gets pregnant doesn't want kids. Sorry for the misunderstanding. About switching drs I have to check because there is only a handful of RE innetwork and like 4 out of the 6 are in the same group as mine. There is one that has absolutely no manners I went to him once years ago for pcos and what he said he said bluntly. Told me to lose 100lbs then go back to him. I will keep looking though. In the meantime I will keep working hard to lose more weight. Obviously wt loss helps. Thank you

where in fl do you live? im in south broward county ( ft lauderdale area) and i have a great ob practice.. its all women.. its called "all womens health care".. my ob specializes in infertility as well as a few other things...

I didn't know you were in Ft Lauderdale...I was just there in June for a conference...I'd have asked if you wanted to meet up!  : (

ah!.. yes.. it would have been a great time.. next time let me know.. sadly i dont think ill be making it to your part of the world anytime soon.. hows the house going?

lexa,

You reminded me that my ob/gyn also treats fertility issues... I called this afternoon and ironically she is out on maternity leave... the first appointment I can get with her in Dec 1st in the a.m.
I have been a patient of hers from many years.. I was with one of her associate doctors but mine moved away to CO, so I picked her.

Thank you for bringing this up. :-)

Have you ever thought about adoption? I haven't read any of your previous posts so I apologize if you've already talked about the subject. People say that Adoption is very costly and unaffordable, but the cost of IVF is also expensive and it is not "guaranteed" to work. Understandably, you and your hubby would probably want a biological child, but after reading about so many adoption stories women make, they say their sadness about infertility almost always diminishes when they become parents of a child they chose.

Whatever you decide to do, don't ever give up hope. Hope is all we have. Keep going and keep your head up. <3

Hi Eleni,

I have thought about it but hubby is not ready for that yet.. in his mind.. we haven't tried everything before seriously considering that step.  I might think that if nothing happens he might be openminded to do it.