Can't believe it's actually started!!!!
I am a very openind person, my mom just married her partner of 12 years in May and it was amazing. I am so happy for her and I hope that you and your wife have all the happiness that a child brings to a family, I think that same sex couples that want to have children have alot to go thru and hoops to jump thru, just your commitment to this baby already and the battles you have already fought guarantee in my mind that you will truly feel blessed and be amazing parents!!