another blighted ovum

linda.traxler
on 9/3/10 8:57 pm - Laßnitzhöhe, Austria

Had a f/u US on Wed, no change in the egg sac and no embryonic growth.... blighted ovum Had a D&C yesterday morning. At the beginning of this surprise pregancy, I wasn't sure I wanted to be pg. We have 2 kids, I'm 40 and I just wasn't sure, but when I found out I was, I was thrilled. Now, I'm feeling like the rug has been pulled out from under my feet. One thing is clear now though, I very much want a 3rd child, and after the next cycle, we'll try again. Seeing the new moms carrying their babies at the hosiptal was the worst. broke my heart. Hopefully within the next year, that will be me one more time.

Thanks for listening and best wishes to all,
Linda

mzicuis
on 9/3/10 9:30 pm

I'm so sorry...I found out about my surprise a few months ago adn I will be 38 soon...and I thought I was going to slit my wrists...but after about a week or so, I got kind of excited. SO far I have had no issues, but hav had several miscarrages, so I know exactly how you feel

It's a girl !! Robyn Marie...!

March 31 6lbs 12 oz 19 3/4 in

Robin D.
on 9/4/10 12:01 am - Nor Cal, CA

RNY on 02/03/05

Oh, i'm so sorry. My niece found out she was pg a month after I did, and she found out at 12 wks she had a blighted ovum. It was so hard. I really wish you the best of luck having another little one and making your peace with this outcome.

Feb 05 - 315 lbs surgery-- Feb 06 - 187 lbs--May 08 - 200 at son's birth --Aug 08- 235 (due 2 Fenugreek--given to increase breast milk & gained 35 lbs from it.) -- Oct 10 - 280 daughter born (due to bed rest, hospital visits,& gestational diabetes) -Feb 12 - 280 tackling regain--Mar 13 restart- 240 (using rules of the pouch & exercising 2-3xday

amy K.
on 9/4/10 12:04 am - Riverside, CA

RNY on 10/11/06

I am so sorry for your loss.

Sept 2009

Nov 2009

shrinkingarmywife77
on 9/4/10 1:12 am - Lyman, SC

RNY on 03/09/09

I am so sorry for your loss...I have had two blighted ovums as well and it doesn't get any easier...I pray you'll be blessed next time you ttc!!!

Sherry-Lynn L.
on 9/4/10 11:57 am - Barrie, Canada

RNY on 04/09/07

Hi Linda,

Just read your post on mine, Thanks for the kind words. I am so sorry you are going through this as well. I completed my mc this afternoon (natural, thank God as I am terrified to have a D&C), it is hard, but looking on the bright side, I can get pregnant, it is just getting them to stick. I have PCOS and could never get pregnant before this past year and a half. We do not have any kids as of yet, unless you count my 2 cats...LOL I am 38 now and hopefully the next one will come quick and really stick (I may regret saying that if I go overdue...LOL but we will just work on getting a healthy stick bean for now). Take care of yourself and best of luck in the future.

Sherry-Lynn

DD July 9th, 2012 7lbs 1oz