Quesion about sex and pregnancy?

Lindsey M.
on 8/25/10 1:51 pm - CA
Does your vagina feel different to you or your husband when you are pregnant while having sex?
  

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on 8/25/10 8:04 pm - Myrtle Beach, SC
We had to deal with this last night, but in fact I think it feels very very different to me! We used to be very active when it came to our sex life and in my first trimester I really would prefer not even to be touched except for a few times here and there. I'm not sure why, but it just seems to feel very different to me and I think I let my head get involved to much and usually end up stopping him when I feel even the slightest discomfort. Poor men! Hopefully, it gets better (or so I've been told) in the 2nd trimester!
FlabToFab
on 8/26/10 1:26 am - Chino Hills, CA
I abstained during the first trimester because I was paranoid.  When I hit 15 weeks, I decided to give it a try, and it SUCKED.  It was so painful for me.  It felt like he wa****ting my pubic bone the entire time, and after 10 minutes, I had to make him stop.  I feel terrible because we have always had an awesome sex life... and it's not uncomfortable because of something he is doing, it's because my body has changed and things just feel different (in a bad way.)  So, we've decided to do things other than intercourse in the meantime.
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kanesmom
on 8/26/10 2:37 am
RNY on 08/16/05 with
During the first trimester, it felt pretty much the same to me. Around week 14 or so, I think my outer vagina got REALLY sensitive. Not in a good way either. But any rubbing/friction, burned like crazy. It seems a little better now, just have to make sure things are well lubricated. Otherwise, (other than the obvious belly bump) sex is pretty much the same for us. My husband does worry that he's hurting the baby...

Just my experience...
Kina


RNY 08/16/05
Weight day of surgery 222
Lost 100 pounds in about 10 months

Pre-pregnancy weight 126
Delivery day weight 166
Currently 118
Baby Gage born 11/02/10
Tabetha A.
on 8/26/10 4:40 am - Ajax, Canada
 It was uncomfortable for me after the 1st trimester, like the others described.. Once the baby started moving noticeably for the husband.. he couldn't get passed that thought of poking his son in the head.. men!  sheesh!

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Sara .
on 8/27/10 11:09 am
Yeah...before it was easier for me to have ******s in a horizontal position, but now it's easier in a more vertical position (standing).


Pre-op: 347 High preg. wt: 331  Current:  284 
Next goal: 283 Lowest post-op: 276

 

Robin D.
on 8/28/10 3:32 am, edited 8/28/10 3:34 am - Nor Cal, CA
First trimester was awesome. More blood pumping = faster ******s. Second trimester we  had to start switching positions up to find the most comfortable ones, and things inside got TIGHT for us both! (not a bad thing, but it was unusual feeling everything.) The third trimester... Well, I've had one preemie so far, and so we are both getting a bit uncomfortable about doing anything in this last trimester. We probably will have sex, but few times and far between which sucks because we both want to pretty badly. lol
Hope  this helps.

Feb 05 - 315 lbs surgery-- Feb 06 - 187 lbs--May 08 - 200 at son's birth --Aug 08- 235 (due 2 Fenugreek--given to increase breast milk & gained 35 lbs from it.) --  Oct 10 - 280 daughter born (due to bed rest, hospital visits,& gestational diabetes) -Feb 12 - 280 tackling regain--Mar 13 restart- 240 (using rules of the pouch & exercising 2-3xday

   

   

   

Harry Potter
on 8/29/10 1:08 am - Hollywood, FL
I have had sex right along, no issues, except now Missionary getting a lil suffocated...lol, so we are always moving it around switching positions. Luckily I haven't had a decline in sex. But as normal I cannot have an "o" from sex, just stimulation. When I do my uterus gets really hard.

Revision RNY 05/14/2014

Current Weight: 197


 

   

 

 

 

 
      

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